June 20, 2013

Fewer U.S. companies planning to hire; Europe looms: poll

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() – American companies are scaling back plans to hire workers and a rising share of firms feel the European debt crisis is taking a bite out of their sales, a survey showed on Monday.

Only 23 percent of the firms polled in June plan to add to staff in the next six months, the National Association for said on Monday.

NABE’s prior survey, conducted in late March and early April, had shown 39 percent of companies planning to add workers.

Already, hiring by companies has slowed dramatically in recent months as employers worry about a sagging global economy hurt by ’s snowballing debt crisis.

Some economic data has suggested at least some of the hiring has been due to caution rather than a in business. A July 6 report, for example, showed companies asked employees to work longer hours last month, even though they slowed the of hiring.

The NABE survey suggests such caution on hiring could continue.

The poll showed 47 percent of companies polled felt their sales have dropped due to Europe’s .

Among companies that produce goods rather than provide services, the impact was even greater, with nearly four in five reporting a Europe-driven decline in revenues.

earlier, only about a quarter of total firms polled thought sales had fallen.

NABE surveyed 67 of its members between June 14 and June 26. Not all responded to every question. About 40 percent of the firms surveyed have more than 1,000 employees.

(Reporting by Jason Lange; Editing by Chizu Nomiyama)

6 Ways To End A Sex Drought

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(Phatforums News / The Frisky) — When it rains, it pours.

You hear it all the time, and the implication, of course, is that there’s also a : When it’s dry, it’s dry for ages. This is especially true when it comes to sex. Often it feels like the only thing you need to get a guy’s attention is another guy’s attention. Conversely, when it’s been awhile since you’ve done, ahem, the deed, it can feel like it’ll never happen again. Which, of course, it will. It’s only a matter of time. After the jump, for your reading pleasure, a list of to get the ol’ ball rolling again. By which I mean: LET’S GET YOU LAID. It’s been too long.

1. Maintain . First things first: Stop looking for your future husband. We’re not out to find you Mr. Perfect, we’re looking to get you laid. Find someone to whom you’re attracted, someone you think is a . That’s all. You don’t need identical value systems, you don’t have to be on the same page about kids, you don’t need to worry if he’s unemployed. Here’s your one and only guiding line: “I’m looking for someone attractive and kind. I’m going forth. And conquering.”

2. Embrace . It’s 2012, my darlings. Let go — if you haven’t all ready — of the double standards put upon women who have . If you want it, have it. (And safely, of course.) Put all your energy into enjoying yourself (and kicking idiotic terms like “slut” to the curb).

3. Travel. Now, when I say travel, I’m talking as big or small as you want to go. Travel to the new bar that’s 20 minutes from your home instead of 10. Travel to that resort you keep meaning to check out that’s two hours away. Travel across the country. Go to Europe, for ’s sake! Put yourself in a situation that lets you be the . It’s not just that you’re meeting new people — it’s that on levels both conscious and not, you’re expanding your mind and broadening your horizons, and all those sorts of things will create a new level of openness that will only have a positive effect. Are we talking Break-a-Budget-That-You-Can’t-Afford? No. We’re talking figure out what you can afford, and spend it on new sights and experiences.

4. Use Facebook or to your advantage. We need to make sure people know you’re single and looking. So start using those status updates to just that sort of positive effect! Wait for an instance wherein you’re in a zone of loving your single-dom, e.g. you’re glammed-up and out with your gal pals, and post a tweet or status update wherein you bravely address it. I’m talking something in the spirit of, “The single gals at the restaurant are always the ones laughing the hardest!” In short, don’t be afraid to speak of your single-dom in an online setting. It serves you well to embrace, announce, and relish the status just as often as you can.

5. Tell the elderly. Listen: I’ve gotten more dates from keeping the elderly abreast of my single-gal status than pretty much anywhere else. I swear! I’m talking my grandmother, my grandmother’s friends, and various elderly neighbors. These women have been around a long time, they’ve got a wide network, and they spend a decent portion of their day chitting and chatting with friends. Here’s a group that loves — and I mean loves – to match-make. They’re just the types you want looking out for you and your cause. The other thing is, and I know this is a broad generalization, but I have personally seen it proven time and again: These women tend to know The Nice Guys, — i.e., your Grandma’s BFF Agnes isn’t going to set you up with Mr. Rude Bartender. No. She’ll set you up with so-and-so’s son who went to overnight camp with her daughter’s daughter 20 years back, a guy who works presently with, oh I don’t know, web content. So the next time these women of a certain age approach you, slow down, settle in, and share your story!

6. Get out of the house! Arguably the most obvious of the points, but just as a healthy and helpful reminder: Your home is for having sex. Not finding sex. Take a moment and consider how many of your mundane, daily activities could be moved to various areas that get just a wee bit more foot traffic than your couch. For example, if you read your paper in the morning at your kitchen table, perhaps get in the habit of reading it over coffee at your local coffee shop. If, in the evening, you whiling away the hours on the internet, maybe do so on your iPad at your local bar. What I’m saying is, it helps to be available for someone other than a Peeping Tom.

This piece was originally published on How About We’s blog The Date Report.

Boxing: Wladimir Klitschko not taking Mormeck matchup lightly

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(PhatzRadio / ) — The third in a three-week trilogy of heavyweight fights on and EpixHD.com on Saturday (4:30 p.m. ET) stars the younger half of the Klitschko dynasty, Wladimir, who will take on little-known, and, at least outside of , little-respected Jean-Marc Mormeck (36-4, 22 KOs) of France.

Klitschko, 35, holds most of the in existence these days, and there are many. He holds the , WBO, IBF and IBO titles, not to mention the Ring magazine title as ’s lineal champion.

Both Klitschkos — holds the — are destined to go down in history as among the greatest heavyweights of this or any era.

But neither of the Ukrainian brothers has been truly challenged of late. last lost nearly nine years ago, to , though Klitschko was dominating that fight before suffering a cut that forced the fight to be stopped in the sixth round.

Wladimir (56-3, 49 KOs) has not lost since a stunning by American Lamon Brewster in 2004 in Las Vegas, which helped earn Klitschko a reputation as having somewhat of a .

Klitschko and his longtime trainer, Emanuel Steward, are not taking the fight against the much shorter (6-6 vs. 5-11½), lighter and older Mormeck, 39, a former , lightly, even if the rest of the world does.

They realize upsets can happen and point to Wladimir’s losses to heavy underdogs Ross Puritty in 1998 and Corrie Sanders in 2003.

“We’re fighting a fighter with a style unlike anyone Wladimir has had to fight,” Steward said during a conference call with reporters Wednesday from Dusseldorf, Germany, where the fight will take place before a sold-out crowd of up to 50,000 at Espirit Arena. “Everyone says it’s a total , but styles make fights. We’re fighting a guy with a bob-and-weave style, something Wladimir has not fought against.

“It’s the most difficult style for tall fighters. Most of the guys I’ve trained, from (Thomas) Hearns, Lennox (Lewis), and even myself when I fought, we were all tall fighters, and the biggest problems were always guys with their heads down bobbing and weaving. Because you don’t have much of a target, and you have a danger of breaking your hands.

“It’s not the type of fight everyone thinks it is, where (Wladimir) can come out and blow the guy away. You have to fight a very patient fight. You have to jab and learn to control the guy’s head because his head is up front and if you control that, you control his whole weight.”

Klitschko insists the seeming lack of competition in the heavyweight division — he points to unbeaten American Seth Mitchell as someone who could someday present a real challenge — is not as frustrating to him as it seems to be to fans and the news media.

“It looks maybe simple and one-sided for you guys, but it’s demanding a lot of work and concentration and you have to be right on the dot in the night (of the fight),” he said. “It doesn’t matter what kind of mood you have, what kind of physical shape you have, you need on Saturday night to show your best performance. It’s not as easy as you think, or one-sided, well maybe it’s one-sided, but it takes a lot of strength and work.

“If our fights were kind of sloppy and we were getting punched in the face and we needed to have a shoehorn to put the hat on after the fights, probably that would be exciting for the fans.”

Klitschko said he and his brother will dominate the heavyweight division “as long as we have fun, and we’re having fun doing it.

“When I’m wearing my gloves, I’m saying (to) Emanuel, it’s amazing, I the job, what I do, because I’m still learning. I’m still improving myself.”

But Steward admits that he’s been frustrated by the dearth of heavyweight competition.

“It is frustrating to me, but there’s not a lot we can do about it,” he said. “It’s unfortunate we don’t have any heavyweight challengers in America, and it’s not (the Klitschkos’) fault.”

Steward does say Americans Mitchell, a former linebacker at Michigan State, and Chris Arreola are possible challengers down the road.

Arreola lost to Vitali in 2009 in a fight Steward says might have been one of the best performances by the elder Klitschko since his loss to Lewis in 2003.

“Chris has won a few fights, seems to have his weight down, and he’d be a tough fight for Wladimir because he’s very physical,” Steward said. “He would force Wladimir out of his comfort zone because of his rough style and he’s just physically big enough.

“The dream would be to see (Arreola) in New York, hopefully Wladimir’s next fight.”

Steward also likes Mitchell, whom he says has good training but believes might be a year away.

“Mitchell looks good. He’s a fundamentally good fighter. He comes in and throws punches, and he’ll be a good challenger. Too bad we don’t have a bunch of them.

“Unfortunately this is maybe the worst heavyweight time in history, but all we can do is beat what’s out there. It’s frustrating for us, too, but Wladimir seems to enjoy fighting, so we just do the best we can.”

Steward analogized this era of heavyweights to what Joe Louis once described during a slow period of his career as “bum of the month.”

“I’ve always told Wladimir that if you keep the heavyweight championship, sooner or later there will be somebody to come up out of nowhere.

“But, you know, as long as you keep the title, all roads lead to a Klitschko.”

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Skiing: First look at the Sochi downhill

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(PhatzRadio / ) — Since returning from a stop in I’ve been bombarded with people hungry for information. Everyone wants to know what was like and how preparations look for the 2014 Olympics.

Sadly, we never made it to during our stay in Russia. However, we did get a good week in Rosa Khutor, which is to as was to for the .

That being said, if Whistler had to build an athletes village for 2010, Rosa Khutor is building the equivalent of Whistler itself for 2014. It’s not surprising, then, that the sound of construction resonated throughout the village 24/7.

During our week in Rosa Khutor, everyone was taking in as much information as possible as we looked for anything to help us better prepare for the Olympics. The athletes’ primary focus during our stay was on the course itself. We asked ourselves questions like, did it speak to me? How can I find an edge? And what will I have to do in order to best prepare for 2014?

All athletes want to return to Russia with the best possible chance to take home an elusive . This trip gave us some of the information that will help us prepare for that possibility.

Russia: The bad

The most challenging parts of our Russia and Rosa Khutor experience were, without a , the travel and the levels of bureaucracy that we faced around every corner.

Simply put, the of moving around Russia were anything but smooth and efficient. Surprisingly, the distance of travel wasn’t the hard part, nor was the three-hour time change from (a 12-hour time change from Vancouver). It was the fact that every step through the process took much longer than it normally would. I believe this was due to the levels of at every . It was never just a simple process of scanning a – everything appeared to be more complicated and time consuming.

For example, in Moscow, we had to collect our bags and sprint across to the airport to re-check in for our next flight. With only 90 minutes to work with, we were unable to make the connection. It then took another three hours to get into a hotel and another hour before we ate dinner at 11:15 p.m. The basic act of checking into the hotel took 45 minutes. Why? Your guess is as good as mine.

Little challenges began to add up over time. Like the elevator at the Sochi airport being too small for our carts with baggage. Yes, that’s a small challenge, but it was the cumulative effect of these challenges that made Russian travel unpleasant.

Russia: The good

Now, onto the positives. The best part of our experience had to be when the mayor hosted a welcoming event that showcased exceptional traditional singing and dancing. Since my great grandfather was a Russian singer, it spoke right to my heart. I felt this surge of power and connection to roots long lost in my family tree.

I was blown away by the performers’ skill and enthusiasm. It was a great introduction to Russian culture and one that left everyone asking for more.

As for the hill, I think everyone was pleasantly surprised. Other than the mandatory passing through metal detectors to board the gondola, I was truly impressed with our on-hill experience. The lifts and lodges were all very good (though the bathrooms left something to be desired). The hill was well built and interesting – one that will host great and entice any freeskier to make the long journey to its peak.

When the skies were clear you could see the Black Sea from the top of the mountain. What a view! The top gondola not only takes you to the men’s and women’s Olympic tracks, but also lets you access countless first-track possibilities on a good powder day.

The hotel was also nice. A good size room with a well laid out bathroom is more than we see on many of our European stops. The food was also pretty good, although we may have to introduce them to chocolate. Their desserts of choice were all cake-based and lacked any hint of chocolate. With 72 female athletes there and no groceries in sight, there were a few unanswered chocolate cravings that week!

We’ll be back

I started my career being terrified of jumps on a downhill course since I was so sketchy. Now, they are my favorite part of the course. I simply love flying through the air and look forward to the sections with jumps. What once held such fear for me is now my favourite element in racing.

This is a good reminder that nothing about our present state is static. We simply never know what the future holds. I’m sure Rosa Khutor will change and evolve drastically over the next two years. It will be interesting to see its evolution.

Our next trip to Sochi will be for the 2014 Olympic Games. With the Canadian alpine team racking up several fourth- to sixth-place finishes in Torino and Vancouver, I hope Sochi will hold the magic to help us stand upon that podium.

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World’s First International Sex School Isn’t for the Weak

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(Phatforums News / The Stir) — The world’s first international sex school is now open in Vienna, Austria. For about $2,200, you can enroll and live in a co-ed dormitory with your . As long as you’re 16 or older (16!) and have genitals, you’re welcome at the sex school. The theory behind the school is to teach its pupils how to be better lovers. Students will be encouraged to … experiment with one another because the syllabus is more practical than it is theoretical. The headmistress, who’s Swedish (how perfect is that?), explains that classes will be very “hands on” and that lectures will discuss “applied .”

la la! I like the sound of this so far, but the sex school isn’t for the weak. So before you pack your best panties and hop a plane to , let’s think this through.

First of all, isn’t a sex school a little redundant? Isn’t that what actual college is for? And secondly, I’m not quite sure I’m understanding the greater goal of the school. If it aims to teach people how to be better lovers, that seems a little generic to me. I feel like we can learn those people-pleasing tips from the Internet. Shouldn’t it focus more on individuals in relationships?

The school might get more attention, more serious attention, not just from people who look at it like some sort of 24/7 orgy in the name of learning, if it was geared toward couples. Knowing what your partner wants and executing it is where a lot of couples run into trouble. And lot of that has to do with a .

Sometimes people are embarrassed to say what they like, or how they like it, and need a little . If this sex school could help couples explore what’s holding them back, I don’t know, it might be more interesting. And a “hands on” approach would still work here. I think everyone would agree that’s the best way to learn.

That said, couples with intimacy issues are probably not who they’re looking for. Who they are exactly looking for is a , but I suppose it’s someone open-minded who likes to have sex. Don’t think they’ll have a hard time filling classes, do you?

Libyans: Food shortage, more violence by security forces in Tripoli

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(Phatforums) - This update is unconfirmed - information is sourced from social media groups.

The burning of the soldiers who did not want to shoot the protesters is unconfirmed yet, you must know that there are other people that would do such thing so that people think it's the president and more people go against him, I cannot say anything about that.

There were always small protesters against him, but now it's bigger.
Yes, was blocked 1 year ago (or 2 not sure sry) because many were flaming him on the videos showing him.

Facebook has been blocked 3-4 days ago, I still access it with a private proxy though, and is blocked too.

The internet is slow, and phone connections are hard to reach, but we all got a big bonus We got 10 credits in our phone!

I do not want to go on your radio station or whatever, I might get in trouble. I can get many images and videos (I already have some images like a dead body of a 50 cal sniper bullet shot through his head, I do not want to post it, it's very very strong and ugly).

I was also thinking to make a Libyan Facebook, but that might get me in trouble

UNCONFIRMED NEWS: People say that a meeting will be held, or is being now, that the high ranked government people offered the president the same payment as he is getting now, everything same, offering him FULL security in Libya, and his family, but just to leave his current position as a leader. It is an important meeting, but unconfirmed.

() - Libya's Muammar Gaddafi used tanks, helicopters and warplanes to fight a growing revolt, witnesses said on Tuesday, as the veteran leader scoffed at reports he was fleeing after four decades in power.

The U.N. refugee agency urged to Libya's neighbors not to turn back those fleeing the violence, as hundreds of refugees streamed into Egypt on tractors and trucks, describing a wave of killing and banditry unleashed by the revolt.

In the eastern town of Al Bayda, resident Marai Al Mahry told Reuters by telephone that 26 people including his brother Ahmed had been shot dead overnight by Gaddafi loyalists.

"They shoot you just for walking on the street," he said, sobbing uncontrollably as he appealed for help.

Protesters were attacked with tanks and warplanes, he said.

"The only thing we can do now is not give up, no surrender, no going back. We will die anyways, whether we like it or not. It is clear that they don't care whether we live or not. This is genocide," said Mahry, 42.

In Tripoli, residents told Reuters there was no visible security force presence on the streets. The only police present were directing traffic, they said, the day after reports that warplanes had bombed portions of the capital and mercenaries had shot civilians.

Refugees fleeing into Egypt told of a wave of violence and crime.

"Five people died on the street where I live," Mohamed Jalaly, 40, told Reuters at Salum on his way to Cairo from Benghazi. "You leave Benghazi and then you have ... nothing but gangs and youths with weapons," he added. "The way from Benghazi is extremely dangerous," he said.

Libyan guards have withdrawn from their side of the border and Egypt's new rulers -- who took power following the overthrow of President Hosni Mubarak on February11 -- said the main crossing would be kept open round-the-clock to allow the sick and wounded to enter.

Libyan security forces have cracked down fiercely on demonstrators across the country, with fighting spreading to Tripoli after erupting in Libya's oil-producing east last week, in a reaction to decades of repression and following uprisings that have toppled leaders in Tunisia and Egypt.

Human Rights Watch says at least 233 people have been killed and opposition groups put the figure much higher but independent verification is impossible.

The revolt in OPEC member Libya has driven oil prices to a 2 1/2 year high above $108 a barrel.

As the fighting has intensified some supporters have abandoned Gaddafi. Tripoli's envoy to India, Ali al-Essawi, resigned and told Reuters that African mercenaries had been recruited to help put down protests.

"The fall of Gaddafi is the imperative of the people in streets," he said. The justice minister also quit and a group of officers urged soldiers to "join the people." Two pilots flew their warplanes to nearby Malta.

DEFIANCE AND CONDEMNATION
Gaddafi's son Saif on Sunday vowed his father would keep fighting "until the last man standing" and the Libyan leader appeared on television after days of seclusion to dismiss reports he had fled to the Venezuela of his ally Hugo Chavez.

"I want to show that I'm in Tripoli and not in Venezuela. Do not believe the channels belonging to stray dogs," said Gaddafi, who has ruled Libya with a mixture of populism and tight control since taking power in a military coup in 1969.

World powers have condemned the use of force against protesters, U.N. accusing Libya of firing on civilians from warplanes and helicopters. The Security Council was to discuss Libya at 9 a.m. EST.

Washington and Europe have demanded an end to the violence and Germany's Foreign Minister Guido Westerwelle said: "A ruling family, threatening its people with civil war, has reached the end of the line."

Demonstrations spread to Tripoli from the second city Benghazi, cradle of the revolt that has engulfed a number of towns and which residents say is now in the hands of protestors.

Residents said anxious shoppers were queuing outside stores to try to stock up on food and drink. Some shops were closed.

In Tripoli, one resident said locals were patrolling their neighborhood at night to protect it from roaming mercenaries, reporting sniper fire and the use of military transport helicopters to ferry security forces about.

"Gaddafi obviously does not have any limits. We knew he was crazy, but it's still a terrible shock to see him turning mercenaries on his own people and just mowing down unarmed demonstrators," he told Lisa Goldman, a Canadian-Israeli journalist based in Tel Aviv.

ENERGY DISRUPTION

Spain's Repsol suspended all operations in Libya and trade sources reported operations at Libyan oil ports had been disrupted due to the unrest. Others said gas supplies from Libya to had slowed since Late Monday but said they had not yet been interrupted.

Shell said it was pulling out its expatriate staff from Libya temporarily and a number of states were seeking to evacuate their nationals.

The upheavals which deposed the presidents of Tunisia and Egypt have shaken the Arab world and inspired protests across the Middle East and North Africa, threatening the of long-entrenched autocratic leaders.

A flamboyant figure with his flowing robes and bevy of female bodyguards, Gaddafi was famously branded a "mad dog" by one president and has long been accused by the West of links to terrorism and revolutionary movements.

But this changed when Libya renounced its weapons of mass destruction to secure an end to its international isolation and a rapprochement with western governments, keen to tap its oil and gas wealth and lucrative trade and investment deals.

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(Reporting by Tarek Amara, Christian Lowe, Tarek Amara, Marie-Louise Gumuchian, Souhail Karam; Love, Daren Butler; Henry Foy in New Delhi; Writing by Jon Boyle; Editing by Angus MacSwan and Giles Elgood)

Iranian warships sailing through Suez poses prickly decision for Egypt

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The frigate Alvand, pictured in 2009, is one of the two ships Iran wants to send through the Suez Canal.
STORY HIGHLIGHTS

* Iran has submitted a request for two ships to sail through the Suez Canal
* Egypt is bound by a treaty to allow them to pass
* But Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Liberman calls it an act of provocation
* The situation could further escalate tensions in the region

(CNN) — Iran has submitted an official request for two of its warships to sail through the Suez Canal, an Egyptian official told CNN Thursday, in a move that puts Egypt’s new regime in a prickly position with Israel.

The post-Hosni Mubarak caretaker must decide whether to give a green light to the Iranian warships, believed to be the first that would sail through the Suez since the Islamic republic’s 1979 revolution.

The Egyptian official told CNN that permission will likely be granted. But Egypt might find itself in muddy water over the Suez.

The canal is an internal body of water and as such, Egypt has sovereignty over it. But Egypt also is bound by the 1976 Camp David Accords, which guaranteed the right of free passage by ships belonging to Israel and all other nations on the basis of the Constantinople Convention of 1888. Before that, Egypt did not allow Israeli ships to sail through the canal.

Last week, Egypt’s military government said it would honor all its international treaties. That would include Camp David.

Now it finds itself in the position of allowing ships belonging to the sworn enemy of its peace treaty partner to sail through.

“This is awkward — at a minimum,” said David Schenker, director of the Program on Arab Politics at the Institute for Near East Policy.

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* Egypt
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Schenker said the Iranians want a frigate — the Alvand — and a military supply — the Kharg — to cross into the Mediterranean. Both are armed with missiles, he said. Their passage would create more uncertainty in the region.

“It’s destabilizing. It raises tension, particularly in this time of transition in Egypt,” Schenker said. “This is typical of Syrian-Iranian opportunism.”

Schenker predicted the Egyptians will let the Iranians through. Former President Hosni Mubarak might have done otherwise, given Hezbollah’s calls a while back for his ouster. But, “There is not a war between Iran and Egypt,” he said.

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Some maritime analysts privately said Washington could pressure Egypt’s new military caretaker government to say no to Iran. Washington agreed to a $13 billion, 10-year military package to Egypt in 2007.

Egypt’s decision, the analysts said, could serve as a barometer for the direction the military caretakers intend to take the Arab world’s most populous nation.

“It does raise an unwelcome political issue that has to be resolved,” said Cmdr. James Kraska of the Naval War College in Rhode Island.

Ahmed El-Manakhly, the transit director of the Suez Canal Authority, had said earlier Thursday that no official request from Iran had been received. Warships planning to cross the canal must ask permission of Egypt’s defense and foreign ministries, El-Manakhly said.

The canal authority’s states that ships intending to sail northbound must be in place by 6 a.m. No Iranian ships were there Thursday, but Iran’s state-run Press TV reported the warships were making their way from the Red Sea toward the Mediterranean.

Iran said earlier that the flotilla was on a yearlong intelligence-gathering and training mission to prepare young cadets to defend Iran’s cargo ships and oil tankers, according to the semi-official Fars News Agency.

Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Liberman said the two Iranian military vessels had been expected to sail Wednesday night through the Suez on their way to Syria.

“This is a provocation that proves that the self-confidence and insolence of the Iranians is growing from day to day,” he said Wednesday. “This happens after the Iranian president’s visit to south Lebanon and his aggressive declarations there towards Israel.”

Liberman did not mention Egypt by name but said Israel’s allies should pay close attention to the situation.

“We expect the international community to act speedily with determination against the Iranian provocations, designed to deteriorate the situation in the area, and put the Iranians in their place,” he said.

The Israeli Defense Ministry said Israel was monitoring the movement of the Iranian ships and alerted its allies.

At the U.S. State Department, spokesman P.J. Crowley said Wednesday the is also watching the situation.

Reports of the Iranian passage also sent jitters through the global market and oil prices spiked for a time on Wednesday.

The Suez Canal serves as a key waterway for international trade, allowing ships to navigate between and without having to go all the way around the vast African continent. Millions of barrels of oil move through the Suez every day on the way to both and North America.

Egypt: No Iranian warships have passed through Suez

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The Suez Canal links the Red Sea to the Mediterranean, a crucial bridge between and .
STORY HIGHLIGHTS

* Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Liberman says two Iranian warships are expected to pass through the Suez Canal
* No request has been made by Iran for waships to cross the canal
* The Israeli Defense Ministry says it is monitoring the movement of Iranian ships

(CNN) — Iran has not requested to move any of its warships through the Suez Canal, an Egyptian official said Thursday.

“No Iranian warships sailed through the canal in the last two days and nothing is planned for the coming days either,” said Ahmed El-Manakhly, the transit director of the Suez Canal Authority.

“In order for any warship to cross the canal, their needs to send a request to the Ministry of Defense and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs through their embassy in Cairo for approval and once approved, the warships can cross the canal. but for now, no official request has been submitted,” he said.

The came a day after Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Liberman said two Iranian warships were expected to pass through the Suez Canal Wednesday night on their way to Syria.

“This is a provocation that proves that the self-confidence and insolence of the Iranians is growing from day to day,” he said. “This happens after the Iranian president’s visit to south Lebanon and his aggressive declarations there towards .”

The Israeli Defense Ministry said Israel was monitoring the movement of the Iranian ships and alerted its allies.

On the report, oil prices spiked for a time on Wednesday.

The Suez Canal serves as a key passageway for international trade, allowing ships to navigate between Europe and Asia without having to go all the way around the Cape of Good Hope in South Africa.

Millions of barrels of oil move through the Suez every day on the way to both Europe and North America.

Iranian Navy officials have said the flotilla has embarked on a yearlong training mission that takes it to the to the Red Sea and through the Suez Canal into the Mediterranean Sea, according to the semi-official Fars News Agency.

During the mission, Iranian Navy cadets are due to be trained and prepared for defending the country’s cargo ships and oil tankers.

Iranian Navy Cmdr. Rear Adm. Habibollah Sayyari said cadets would be trained to protect ships and tankers now under threat of from pirates, Fars said. Part of the mission was also to gather intelligence.

Sayyari said the ships were in the region in “pursuit of a powerful () presence in the high seas and to consolidate our friendly ties and declare our message of peace and friendship to the regional countries.”

Liberman said Wednesday that Israel’s allies should pay attention after the news of the Iranians plan to enter the Suez..

“We expect the international community to act speedily with determination against the Iranian provocations, designed to deteriorate the situation in the area, and put the Iranians in their place,” he said.

Liberman’s comments were not so much a threat but a wake-up call about a “worrying development,” said a senior government official who was not identified because he was not authorized to speak to the media.

The official said Liberman was “painting it as a challenge to the West.”

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamim Netanyahu’s office offered no immediate comment.

Is Staying in Love a Choice?

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We all know it’s easy to fall in , but Alex Kuczynski argues that keeping the romance should be easy, too.

I’ll never forget learning the difference between a successful long-term and a failed one. I was in a salon on Madison Avenue a week before my wedding, and the next to me getting highlights offered her advice. I knew her nephew, and she thought this was enough of a connection to be candid.

“Don’t let it become like mine,” she said, sounding flatly unimpressed with herself. “It’s been 10 years, and we’ve had our children. Now we live in the same house and sleep in the same bed, but it’s not really a marriage.” She stopped and peered at me from under a Sydney Opera House of tinfoils. “Don’t become brother and sister. Make a choice to be something else.”

Now that my and I have been together for 10 years, married more than eight, from time to time I pause to reflect on what that woman said. There is so much literature about making marriages work, and so much conversation about how much work it takes to have a good marriage, that it’s hard to believe anyone has a good marriage anymore. Instead, it sounds like we all have second jobs.

You never see happy marriages on , of course. Satisfied, calm marriages don’t make for high ratings or good gossip. Most celebrities discuss how hard they work at their marriages; discussing an easy one doesn’t sell magazines. No one writes about his or her good marriage. Yawn. Memoirs sell off the wreckage of people’s lives, not the pleasant successes. Wreckage gets you on Oprah.

But the notion that we ought to choose to remain in love doesn’t wash with me anymore. Love is a commitment, but the idea of choosing to work at your marriage sounds like a drag. I’m going to write something that might irritate people, but here we go: Sometimes you luck out. Sometimes being married is easy. Sometimes — strike up the violins and cue the Hugh Grant voice-over — love chooses you.

Frankly, it should be easy. It should be a joy almost every day to be married, to feel relief and gratitude, and if it isn’t, you’re in the wrong marriage. The secret to a happy marriage isn’t hard work, as if we should behave like dogs gnawing over the bones of a until we discover marrow. It’s not convincing yourself that every good marriage takes work and hauling yourselves to therapy twice a week until the wheels come off. The secret to a happy marriage is finding the right person and remaining faithful. Call me a boorish American bourgeois (and all my unhappily married friends in will), but that’s pretty much it.

Beyond that, the ideal is to fall in love, then — surprise — to fall further in love each passing year, from the first phase of romantic love (which can last up to three years, say psychologists) to the attachment phase of love, the long, forever period when you either remain attached or become detached, like the woman under the tinfoil who felt like she was sleeping with her brother.

I’m bored with people who tick off with a dreary consistency all the noble tasks they do to make their marriage work, as if they should be congratulated for accepting the connubial call to arms. A few years ago, a friend told me she bought a Roomba as a relationship solver because neither she nor her husband could be bothered to vacuum the kitchen. I watched the dark little disk wander the linoleum floor until it stalled in a corner, and I thought to myself, “This relationship is doomed. These people don’t even like each other enough to make their apartment presentable to each other. That’s not hard work; that’s basic respect.” Two years later, they were divorced.

Imagine that your spouse might disappear from the face of the earth tomorrow. For so many people — think of people in combat, war correspondents, police officers, emergency responders — that’s a terrifying, potentially sudden reality.

If that thought doesn’t cause enough panic and heartbreak and sorrow to overwhelm you, you’re in the wrong place with the wrong person.

As for the woman under the tinfoil, I e-mailed her nephew the other day. She made a choice. She’s still married.

Adult Industry Supports Safer Internet Day, ASACP

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LOS ANGELES — The Association of Sites Advocating Protection announced plans to host an online fundraiser for the Foundation on Safer Day Feb. 8.

As part of Safer Internet Day, many of the largest Internet companies in the , Canada, Australia, and will reach out to their customers to educate them about parental resources and ask them to donate to the ASACP Foundation.

These donations will help the foundation to continue its online child protection mission. For example, in 2010, ASACP developed Restricted to Adults RTA labeling/filtering software to work with Android Apps.

Safer Internet Day is organized by Insafe, which is co-funded by the E.U. Each year Insafe promotes safer and more responsible use of online and mobile phones, especially among children and young people across the world.

In 2010, Safer Internet Day was celebrated through more than 500 events in 65 countries around the world. ASACP and the industry want to once again demonstrate their ongoing effort to protect children, by participating in this global event.

“It is important that everyone works together to keep the Internet safe — especially for children,” ASACP CEO Joan Irvine stated. “Parents, businesses and governments all have a responsibility in this process.”

“While parents have a responsibility to educate their children and install parental controls on computers and mobile phones, the industry uses RTA as a vital tool that helps parents control what their kids can access,” she said.

ASACP and industry leaders have produced several public service announcements to educate both parents and the industry about the use of the international award-winning Restricted to Adults (RTA) meta tag.

To date, more than 2.5 million sites have voluntarily labeled with RTA and there are more than 6 billion monthly views to pages labeled with RTA.

“ASACP and the entertainment industry are very proud of their contributions to RTA and online child safety,” Irvine added, saying that she wanted to thank all the companies that are participating in Safer Internet Day.