Statistics show that 60% of women admit to masturbating. Notice I wrote, “admit?” That’s because statistics are about as believable as OJ on the stand. But for the sake of stats, here goes: 20% of women under 30 years of age masturbate once a week, and 7% do it every other day. As well, females, on average, begin masturbating at about 14 or 15 years old.

So why don’t all women masturbate? Simply put, they don’t have to. For the most part, women can basically bed a man as quickly and easily as Roseanne can gobble down a tub of Haagen Dazs. Albeit, the less attractive women will have to lower their standards, but penises have been offered to all women from the moment they hit adolescence.

Guys, on the other hand, have to spend the majority of their lives pursuing women and trying to score sex, therefore masturbation becomes somewhat necessary for survival. So one would think that masturbation for women is optional, and not necessary. But is it? Perhaps if more women took the time to explore their own bodies, they’d discover their sexual likes and dislikes and be able to achieve orgasm more easily.
tiptoe through the two lips
There are a multitude of reasons why women masturbate. The following are the most popular:

Lonely
Sometimes women come out of a relationship and because they refuse to just delve into sex with just anyone, they resort to feeding their slot in solitaire. After having gotten sex at will from their boyfriends, it’s difficult to accept that they’re going to have to wait to find yet another “Mr. Right” before they can have an orgasm again.

Excitement
A stirring of the senses or the mind may cause a woman’s hand to venture down to the cave every so often. Whether it be a Harlequin romance novel, watching (or hearing) the neighbors go at it from across the way, or reminiscing about the aggressive sex the two of you had a couple of nights ago, an excited woman may opt to satisfy her animalistic sexual urges right away.

Insecure
Some women begin to masturbate because they feel that they’re too overweight or unattractive to be touched by a man. Because they feel “unsexy,” they resort to having sex with themselves rather than sharing themselves with a man.

Plain Horny
Some women become so excited for the smallest reasons or simply think about sex so often, that they feel the need to constantly let their hands complete the job that their minds initiate. The kind of woman who knows exactly how to get herself off and does so whenever she feels like petting the petunia.

Not Satisfied
Some women end up in relationships in which their men either finish up after three strokes (hence the three-pump chump) or worse yet, their men don’t even care if they reach satisfaction. That, or these women can’t find it in themselves to release their sexual inhibitions completely, so they rush off to the washroom after sex and satisfy themselves.

They’re The Best
There are women that are unable to achieve orgasm any other way besides through masturbation. Because they feel that they’re the only ones who really know which spots to hit and at which rate of aggression and velocity, they resort to masturbation in order to attain sexual satisfaction.

So which gadgets do they use when they play with themselves?

how do they do that?
There are plenty of means with which women can satisfy themselves. Needless to say, although women can attain sexual satisfaction via these methods, I personally believe that there is nothing more satisfying than the touch of a loving man’s hand (among other wonderful things they touch us with).

Obviously women do more than just stimulate their clitorises and vaginas. They also play with their breasts and nipples (the lucky ones can suck on them too), rub their bodies while fantasizing that their ideal man is doing it, or they may even stimulate their anuses. But because I’m not writing a novel, I will mainly refer to the different ways a woman pleasures her vagina and clitoris.

Wo-manually
Lots of women need nothing more than a vivid imagination and the use of their own hands. Most orgasms that develop by way of manual masturbation are clitoral and not vaginal. Although they are possible to achieve, G-spot orgasms are unlikely to come (literally) through this method.

Household Appliances et al.
Yup, believe it or not, some women use the handles of hair brushes, phallic-shaped vegetables, Coke bottles, and the like to get off. Why? They’re either too embarrassed to purchase the adequate toys, or they live with someone (family, roommate, lover) and are paranoid about having any sexual appliances in the house.

Dildos
Those penis-shaped gadgets, some of which are exact replicas of real penises, come in quite handy for women who like to achieve G-spot orgasms, or are multi-talented and can penetrate themselves with the object whilst stimulating their clitorises. That way, they can ensure mind-blowing results.

Vibrators
Anything that vibrates whether it be actual vibrators, personal massagers (a fluffy name for vibrators) or the washing machine on spin cycle (a gadget originally created to help women attain orgasm, but ultimately became popularized for its ability to launder clothes), women use these appliances to climax whenever the need arises. Also used by women who have a very difficult time achieving orgasm.

Showerhead
That’s right gentlemen, keep an eye out for those removable showerheads in her washroom, she’s doing a little more than just “rinsing thoroughly.” Many women love those showerheads simply because after they’ve finished beating around the bush, voilà, they’re already clean. The feeling of the water’s speed hitting the clitoris provides quite a stimulating feeling.
getting to know me
So long as it doesn’t become an obsession, masturbation is a very healthy thing for all women and it helps them get to know what they enjoy, and what spots men must hit if they want to stimulate their bodies.

As well, it’s quite evident that most women who have masturbated are more comfortable with their bodies, and with letting their men know what satisfies and gratifies them. It’s not about replacing men, and if you find out that your woman masturbates, don’t ever condemn her for it, nor should you feel insecure.

Rather, encourage her to do it for you in the midst of foreplay. Although some women feel that masturbation is a very personal experience, others will gladly show you how they get themselves off. And if you’re an attentive learner, maybe she’ll let you lick up the results.
what if she doesn’t?
If your woman is not the kind to play with herself, then why don’t you encourage her to do so? Or better yet, the next time you’re using your fingers or penis to penetrate her, take her hand and use her fingers to rub her clitoris with them.

Another thing you can do, is just leave your hand on her vagina and tell her to use your hand to stimulate herself. That way, you’ll get a great session of show-and-tell and she’ll be quite excited by your creativity.

Or, perhaps you can suggest playing a game in which you both stay about a meter away from one another, and masturbate until one of you loses control and attacks the other (more likely than not, the person to lose it will be you).

Until next time, take off all her clothes, ask her to use her fingers to show you what she wants, and remember to wear a condom before going in for the kill.

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