How will I know if he really loves me? I say a prayer with every heartbeat. I fall in love whenever we meet. I’m asking you what you know about these things?

~ Whitney

I laughed when I read this question and couldn’t pass up providing an answer to it. Here’s how you will know if he really loves you:

* If he is thinking about you, he will let you know.
* If he wants to talk to you, he will call.
* If he wants to hangout with you, he will make plans.
* If he wants to kiss you, he will kiss you.
* If he wants to cuddle with you, he will pull you into his arms.
* If he wants a commitment, he will ask for a commitment.
* If he wants to get to know your friends, he will get to know your friends.
* If he wants to meet your parents, he will make time to meet your parents.
* If he wants a future with you, he will talk about having a future with you.

Men are very easy to read. The problem often lies in the hands of the woman reading a man’s signals because women tend to only hear what they want to hear. Women also tend to take clear signals from men and change their meaning to something that they want it to mean. For example, he hasn’t called for three days. She makes up several excuses in her head on how he could be “too busy” to talk. In reality though, he would make a minute or two to call or text her if he wanted to.

Women need to stop making excuses for the men they like. They rely too much on false hope and waste their time on men who don’t feel for them in the same way. They fall for a man and quickly become at his beck and call. Most men are fine with keeping these women around for the “convenience factor.” If he doesn’t have any other options at the time, she will do. If a man can’t go out for a steak, he will settle for ordering in a hamburger. He may not be able to satisfy his craving for steak, but he can fulfill his hunger with a hamburger. A woman shouldn’t settle for being the hamburger! She should go out and find a man who considers her steak.

If a man is into a woman, he will let her know. He will climb mountains for her and make her his number one. He will not hesitate letting her know how he feels. Her happiness will become a key factor in his own happiness. Men don’t fall in love as often as women do, but when they do fall, they fall hard. If he is into you, you will know.

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