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Ask A Hot Chick: Anorgasmia

February 3, 2010 By Leave a Comment
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During masturbation I orgasm within a few minutes, but I rarely do during vaginal sex. What can I do? ~ Justin You know how Goldilocks goes about finding a chair to rest on in the legendary fairytale Goldilocks and the Three Bears? First, she sits on a chair that is “too hard.” Next, she sits on a chair that is too soft. Finally, she finds a chair that is just right. That’s how women work when it comes to sex. If a woman is with a guy who she can’t satisfy during intercourse, she is going to start to thinking his inability to orgasm is because of her. This will most likely make her want to move on. On the contrary, if a woman is with a man who orgasms too quickly and is unable to satisfy her, it is likely she will decide to move on. She wants and needs to find someone that is “just right” for her in bed. If you want to be the man who is “just right” for her in bed, you need to face the facts of your sexual dysfunction. The difficulty or inability for a man to orgasm during sex is a real disorder that is fairly common. It is called male orgasmic disorder or anorgasmia. It’s the third most common sexual problem for men following premature ejaculation and the inability to get an erection.When men enjoy occasional prolonged sex it can be an ego booster, but for men with anorgasmia it creates negative feelings such as frustration, anger and embarrassment. One in ten men suffer from anorgasmia, but only one in a hundred seek help for their problem. Most men are embarrassed to talk about and seek help with problems related to sex.Men shouldn’t be embarrassed to seek help when it comes to any type of sexual dysfunction because there are medications, psychological treatments and physical treatments readily available. There is a huge variety of things that can cause anorgasmia in men like medications, stress, anxiety and alcohol. I would suggest contacting a healthcare professional that can help cure your anorgasmia, not only for you, but also so you can be “just right” for your partner. sexy girl in bed I have been dating this girl for a couple months and everything is going great except she can’t cum from sex or from oral? What do I do? ~ Anonymous Well, that really sucks. By “cum” do you mean she doesn’t get wet or do you mean she can’t reach an orgasm? If by “cum” you mean she can’t get wet, well that’s an easy fix. Vaginal dryness is actually very common, why do you think K-Y is a multi-million dollar company? There are several reasons behind vaginal dryness, such as dehydration and stress. It is also a side effect of several medications. Even when her menstrual cycle is on that day, it could cause dryness. The easiest way to fix vaginal dryness is to go your local pharmacy and pick up some lube. I recommend the K-Y Touch, it gives the perfect little tingle. Another option is to take it slow in bed and spend more time on oral sex. Find out what she likes and what arouses her the most. Every girl has a secret … [Read more...]

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5 Things You Didn't Know: Women

February 3, 2010 By Leave a Comment
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First, let's look at five things you already knew about women: Women have no respect for logic; they can openly disagree with themselves and still be right; they can carry on complex relationships with us, with or without our participation; there is nothing in the world more fragile than an unbreakable woman; they are born able to read minds and will always find our inability a disappointment; and finally, women are a contradiction in terms. This is a statement that doesn’t make sense, no matter how hard we try to figure it out, and it's also one that goes a long way in explaining why women are all so glorious and beautiful and why we can’t stop (why we wouldn’t ever want to stop) falling in love with them. And now, 5 things you didn’t know about women. 1- Women get blue balls No one said you needed balls for them to go blue. What are "blue balls," anyway? During sexual arousal, blood floods the genitals through dilated blood vessels, then struggles to leave the area because those departing vessels constrict -- this is known as vascocongestion. In men, the visible results are an erection and larger testicles. Orgasm and ejaculation (or a little time) will return things to normal, but if the vascocongestion is prolonged, pain and discomfort can set in -- enter the term "blue balls." In women, vascocongestion operates in very much the same way, and if prolonged and unrelieved by an orgasm similar pain, heaviness or discomfort can affect them as well. However, whether the genders experience the same levels of discomfort is unknown. We only know that young men and women have been falsely socialized to think that male blue balls absolutely need to be relieved via orgasm, ideally with female assistance. 2- Female mechanics get paid more than male mechanics In most professional fields women get the shaft, wage and salary-wise, often only earning three-fourths what men do. However, there’s money to be had in professions where women traditionally do not tread. One of the more lucrative jobs is as an auto mechanic, where women can earn almost one-third more than men. Why are women rewarded this way as automotive service technicians and mechanics? For the answer we revert to stereotypes: Women are more verbal than men, they’re easier to approach and to talk to, and both genders agree that women instill more trust in others -- at least with car trouble. 3- One in 10 women has never had an orgasm Science can’t say why this is the case, and if it ever does, the answer won’t apply to all of those women who have never had an orgasm. Yet, it seems, no one can even be certain as to why women orgasm in the first place. The fact that so many women can’t have one supports the notion that the female orgasm is not evolutionary, nor connected to reproductive success or fertility -- otherwise Darwin would’ve nudged them out long ago. Believe it or not, there are still a few more things you didn't know about women... Dr. Eva Martin hints at perhaps … [Read more...]

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Too Much Sex, Spaghetti Syndrome And More

February 3, 2010 By Leave a Comment
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tiger’s “addiction” Do you think Tiger Woods is a sex addict? - LCH, Hollywood, CA “Tiger Woods is a sex addict.” I’ve been hearing this over and over from articles and experts who’ve never even met him. Personally, I don’t believe in labeling or diagnosing someone I’ve never worked with. If around half of people in relationships and marriages cheat on their partners, does this mean the world is filled with sex addicts? It’s a label the media and experts are quick to jump on because it sells. What if you had a billion dollars, fame, power, and were the greatest athlete in the world at your sport? What if at every corner there were porn stars, models and the most attractive people in the world begging to sleep with you (basically my reoccurring dream since puberty)? You guessed it; staying faithful would be hard for a lot of people, both men and women. I can’t say that Tiger is a sex addict, but I can say he made choices that severely hurt his relationship and he’s definitely paying the price for it. spaghetti syndrome Hello Dr.Chaves! My name is A., and lately when I’m having sexual intercourse with my girlfriend, my penis will randomly go soft and I won't be able to finish. This has been happening for the last three times we've had sex. Would you be able to tell me what’s going on? Thanks! - A., Dallas, TX Ah, the dreaded spaghetti noodle syndrome. It happens to us all. If I had a nickel for every time I…well, never mind. It sounds like this issue is more upstairs than downstairs, meaning your mind is likely behind it. What’s going on in your life that has you preoccupied or is affecting your focus in bed? It could be anything from sex performance anxiety, past relationship issues, work or financial stress, or even using rubbers. Don’t let the outside stressors creep into the bedroom -- find ways to alleviate stress. Sometimes a warming lube, a cock ring or increasing the erotic charge (dirty talk, new positions, different environments -- the kitchen’s not just for cooking) can get you over the hump. It’s possible there are medical reasons, but that’s less likely. Getting checked by an MD can be helpful (circulation, hormonal issues), and sometimes if you’re taking medication it can mess with your erection. Even something as simple as getting more sleep, maintaining a healthier diet, increasing exercise, or cutting substance intake (alcohol, drugs) can help our erections. speedy arousal Hi, Dr. Hernando Chaves, from Nigeria. I've been following your Q&A section on the AskMen.com website. I have a sexual problem and I will be brief. I get too aroused very easily; sometimes just seeing a naked girl will get me erect within a millisecond. Is that normal? Also, I “come" very soon -- one minute -- which is breaking my relationship with my fiancée. What is the way out of this? I need urgent help please. Thank you. - H., Nigeria It’s completely normal for people to have different times for arousal/erection, … [Read more...]

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Acacia Reaps $12.4M from Yahoo! in Patent Infringement Case

February 3, 2010 By 3 Comments
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The company’s “streaming media” patents, which it had been trying to enforce against adult companies for years, were invalidated by a federal court last year NEWPORT BEACH, Calif.—The company that both adult and tech companies love to hate has prevailed in a patent lawsuit with Yahoo! Inc. The $12.4 million final judgment awarded Acacia subsidiary Creative Internet Advertising Corporation stems from its May 15, 2009, trial verdict and corresponding $6.6 million damages. “In the final judgment signed on February 1, 2010,” Acacia said in a press release issued Wednesday, “the District Court for the Eastern District of Texas awarded enhanced damages for willful infringement of $4.5 million. The District Court also awarded prejudgment interest of $1.1 million as well as supplemental damages bringing the total award to approximately $12.4 million.” According to TechCrunch, “Yahoo’s messenger program with IMVironments—which revolves around interactive backgrounds that users can add to IM conversations—infringes Acacia’s U.S. Patent Number 6,205,432, filed by a trio of inventors and published back in 2001.” The patent is described as: “An advertisement system and method are provided for inserting into an end user communication message a background reference to an advertisement. “In some embodiments, the background reference causes an advertisement image to be tiled, or watermarked, across an end user screen behind the text of an e-mail message or public posting.” TechCrunch doesn’t pull any punches on Acacia, though, referring to it as “being in the business of suing companies rather than producing products or services.” Business Week, in a profile published Feb. 1, also takes a close look at Acacia, calling it “The Company Tech Loves to Hate.” “Executives at many tech companies—and their investors—call Acacia and its peers … 'patent trolls,'" writes Rachael King, arguing that “trolls assert patents that are too broadly defined or that cover ideas that existed before the patent was granted.” Business Week also says, however, that many small inventors rely on companies such as Acacia to marshal resources they don’t have in order to protect their inventions. For adult companies, however, Acacia from the beginning—starting way back in 2002—was nothing more than a bully out to enforce “streaming media” patents that many considered were not worth the paper they were written on. In the end, after many years of litigation undertaken by a handful of adult companies brought together by Video Secrets and Homegrown Video under the umbrella of a group called the Adult Defense Fund, the remaining “streaming media” patents were invalidated last year by a federal court in Northern California. AEBN’s Scott Coffman wrote at the time, “The leadership of Greg [Clayman] and Spike [Goldberg], who spent not only their companies’ money and resources but who more importantly invested their … [Read more...]

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Pakistan blast kills US soldiers

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Three US military personnel are among at least 10 people killed in an attack near a school in north-west Pakistan. Police said around 70 people, including 63 school girls and a US soldier, were injured in the bombing in Lower Dir. The soldiers were believed to have been training Pakistan's Frontier Corps in counter-insurgency operations. The two governments deny substantial numbers of US troops are based inside Pakistan, where public opinion is strongly opposed to their presence. The US embassy has declined to comment on the killings. Taliban presence Military spokesman Maj Gen Athar Abbas told the BBC that the US personnel were attached to the Frontier Corps as military trainers. They were thought to be travelling in a convoy that was heading to the inauguration ceremony of a newly-built girls' school in Maidan, an area of Lower Dir district in the North West Frontier Province, which is a stronghold of Taliban militants. RECENT ATTACKS ON FOREIGNERS October 2009: Suicide bomber attacks UN offices in Islamabad, killing five people including a foreigner June 2009: Foreigners among at least 18 people killed in suicide attack blamed on the Taliban on Pearl Continental hotel March 2009: Bus carrying Sri Lankan cricket team is attacked in Lahore, injuring seven players and killing five Pakistani policemen September 2008: Truck bomber kills at least 54 people including foreigners at the Marriott Hotel in Islamabad March 2008: A Turkish woman is killed and several foreigners are injured in a bomb attack on an Italian restaurant in Islamabad The blast occurred near a different school in Koto, a heavily populated village along the route. At least three of the dead were school girls, police said, adding that security guards and three local journalists were also among the wounded. Last year, the Pakistani army carried out a major offensive to drive Taliban insurgents out of Lower Dir and the neighbouring districts of Swat and Buner. But the Taliban are still present in remote areas and the latest attack shows that the militants remain a powerful force in the region, our correspondent says. Prime Minister Yousuf Raza Gilani condemned the attack and ordered an investigation, the AFP news agency reports. The Taliban has frequently targeted girls' schools in recent years, burning several to the ground. Many of the girls' school in the region that were destroyed by militants are now being rebuilt. … [Read more...]

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France refuses a citizenship over full Islamic veil

February 3, 2010 By 1 Comment
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The full-face covering has inflamed passions in France The French government has refused to grant citizenship to a foreign national on the grounds that he forced his wife to wear the full Islamic veil. The man, whose current nationality was not given, needed citizenship to settle in the country with his French wife. But Immigration Minister Eric Besson said this was being refused because he was depriving his wife of the liberty to come and go with her face uncovered. Last week, a parliamentary committee proposed a partial ban on full veils. It also recommended that anyone showing visible signs of "radical religious practice" be refused residence permits and citizenship. 'Integration' In a statement, Mr Besson said he had signed a decree on Tuesday rejecting a man's citizenship application after it emerged that he had ordered his wife to cover herself with a head-to-toe veil. Find out about different styles of Muslim headscarf In graphics "It became apparent during the regulation investigation and the prior interview that this person was compelling his wife to wear the all-covering veil, depriving her of the freedom to come and go with her face uncovered, and rejected the principles of secularism and equality between men and women," he said. Later, the minister stressed that French law required anyone seeking naturalisation to demonstrate their desire for integration. Mr Besson's decree has now been sent to Prime Minister Francois Fillon for approval. The interior ministry says only 1,900 women wear full veils in France, home to Europe's biggest Muslim minority. In 2008, a French court denied citizenship to a Moroccan woman on the grounds that her "radical" practice of Islam was incompatible with French values. … [Read more...]

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US wary as Iran president agrees nuclear deal terms

February 3, 2010 By 1 Comment
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Iran's nuclear programme has alarmed Western powers The US has reacted warily after Iran appeared to accept a deal to swap enriched uranium for nuclear fuel. President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad said Iran would have "no problem" if most of its stock was held for several months before being returned as fuel rods. The US said that if this was a new offer, it was "prepared to listen". Soon after the statement, Iranian state TV announced the successful launch of a satellite rocket carrying an "experimental capsule". The West is concerned about Iran's growing missile technology and possible links to its nuclear programme. Iran insists its nuclear development and rocket programme are entirely peaceful. ANALYSIS Paul Reynolds, BBC world affairs correspondent If President Ahmadinejad's comments are followed up by an Iranian approach to the IAEA stating that it is ready to negotiate on a uranium deal, then the whole picture would be changed. Up to this point, Iran has said that it wants major changes to the proposed deal, which would make it unacceptable to the US and its allies. If, on the other hand, he is saying this now as a way of undermining the current discussions on increasing sanctions on Iran, there would be no progress. As always with Iran, it is difficult to assess its policy from one statement. But at least there is some hope. A deal struck in October between Iran, the International Atomic Energy Agency (IAEA) and the so-called P5+1 - the US, Russia, China, UK, France plus Germany - envisaged Iran sending about 70% of its low-enriched uranium to Russia and France where it would be processed into fuel for a research reactor. But last month, diplomats said Iran had told the IAEA that it did not accept the terms of the deal and had instead demanded a simultaneous exchange on its territory. Then, in a state TV interview on Tuesday, President Ahmadinejad dismissed the concerns of his "colleagues" that the West would retain the uranium. "We have no problem sending our enriched uranium abroad," he said. "We say, 'We will give you our 3.5% enriched uranium,' and will get the fuel. It may take four to five months until we get the fuel." BBC Tehran correspondent Jon Leyne, reporting from London, says there will still be scepticism about whether President Ahmadinejad's offer is anything more than a delaying tactic designed to fend off fresh sanctions. In an initial reaction to the comments, US State Department spokesman P J Crowley said the US was "not prepared to change the deal. We are not interested in renegotiating it". NUCLEAR FUEL CYCLE Mined uranium ore is purified and reconstituted into solid form known as yellowcake Yellowcake is chemically processed and converted into Uranium Hexafluoride gas Gas is fed through centrifuges, where its isotopes separate and process is repeated until uranium is enriched Low-level enriched uranium is used for nuclear fuel Highly enriched uranium can be used in nuclear weapons In depth: Nuclear fuel … [Read more...]

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Christmas plane bomb suspect 'co-operating' with US

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Abdulmutallab had stopped talking after surgery for burns The Nigerian man suspected of trying to blow up a US plane on Christmas Day is now co-operating and providing "useful" information, US officials say. Umar Farouk Abdulmutallab had stopped talking to investigators but started again "last week", officials told US media. Mr Abdulmutallab, 23, is accused of trying to blow up a flight to Detroit with a bomb hidden in his underwear. He has denied a charge of attempting to murder 290 people. The BBC's Steve Kingstone in Washington says that with Mr Abdulmutallab apparently talking again, officials say it is conceivable a plea bargain might be now reached. Constitutional rights An official quoted by Reuters news agency said: "Abdulmutallab is talking and has been talking since last week providing useful, actionable and current intelligence that we've been actively following up on." When questioned on the subject, FBI director Robert Mueller told the Senate Intelligence Committee that the intelligence was valuable and that Mr Abdulmutallab was still being questioned. The interrogation of Mr Abdulmutallab has caused controversy in the US. The suspect had been talking to FBI agents before he went into surgery for burns on his legs but afterwards refused to talk. Agents then read him full rights under the US constitution, guaranteeing he would not have to give incriminating evidence. Some politicians argued he should have been treated as a military detainee. A senior law enforcement official told the BBC that some of Mr Abdulmutallab's family had visited him in the middle of last month and that that had played a role in him beginning to talk again. In his earlier comments Mr Abdulmutallab said he had been trained by al-Qaeda-linked militants in Yemen. Al-Qaeda in the Arabian Peninsula, which is based in Yemen, claimed responsibility for the failed bomb attack. Mr Abdulmutallab caught the flight to Detroit from the Netherlands, after connecting from a flight from Nigeria. … [Read more...]

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7 Breakup Tips For A Broken Relationship

February 3, 2010 By Leave a Comment
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When a relationship is on its last leg and a breakup is inevitable, who ends it? Recognizing that her habits have become annoying instead of cute is just the start. Her rude cell phone calls mid-meal, the way she thinks she's always right and her complete lack of respect for your opinion should all be sending you a clear message. Relationships often go bad -- and stay that way. Even when both parties know that they would be happier with someone else, it's human nature to procrastinate about difficult decisions. So rather than riding inertia's wave, use these seven breakup tips for a broken relationship and move on. 1- Make her the first to know Out of respect for her, never tell your friends you're going to break up before telling her it's over. It's a simple thing women consider sacred. The all too connected grapevine is not the place she should or deserves to be told that you're no longer interested. You could discuss some relationship problems you're having with your buddies, but your final decision to break up with her should remain private. Use your judgment to decide which day would be best to break the news to her. If she's very emotional and you think that you'll break her heart, try to do it on a Friday. This will give her the weekend to recover and spend time with friends. But if she's the type to plow through full steam ahead, then perhaps Monday would be best. This will ensure that her busy workweek will keep her mind off the breakup and you. Remember that there will be no "perfect time" to end the relationship. The best thing to do is set a random Monday or Friday to break up -- and stick to it. 2- Find a neutral zone Our second point in our list of seven breakup tips for a broken relationship is for you to know and remember that it's not fair to end the relationship at your place, and neither should you be forced to see a picture on her fridge of you and her hugging. Try to find a neutral locale where both of you would be comfortable to express your feelings, like at a park. At least there you can walk and talk, or maybe even find a more secluded spot. A restaurant, on the other hand, is a bad choice. If she makes a scene, there's no respectful recovery and no quick way out. However, fear of embarrassment is never a reason to leave her in the middle of nowhere. No matter how emotional and heated the conversation gets, there's no excuse for risking her safety or yours. 3- End it in person If you've lost that loving feeling, be courteous and tell her face-to-face. Phone calls and e-mail are fine for small talk, but this is a big issue. It's natural to want as much distance as possible between you and her when you break the bad news, but in this case, fight your instincts and have the decency to say it to her face. The fact that you're reading our seven breakup tips for a broken relationship tells us that you're a bigger man than the guy who dials and dumps. We have four more breakup tips for a broken relationship... 4- Keep it simple There's … [Read more...]

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The Player’s Ball With Rapper Mack 10 to Follow XBIZ Awards

February 3, 2010 By Leave a Comment
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HOLLYWOOD, Calif. — Party promoter D-Money and Kevin Blatt will co-emcee The Player’s Ball featuring West Coast rapper Mack 10 as the party continues at the legendary Avalon Hollywood directly following the 2010 XBIZ Awards on Feb. 10. “The Player’s Ball will give attendees of the XBIZ Awards show a chance to blow off some steam,” D-Money told XBIZ. “It’s a time for us to embrace the players of the industry with a party.” He added that as a continuation of the XBIZ Awards, attendees won’t have to go anywhere for the “largest, longest-running webmaster event of all time.” “For those who don't know, Mack 10 is probably most known for his group Westside Connection with Ice Cube and has his own solo career, selling over 2.4 million albums,” D-Money said. “If you're not familiar with who he is I'm pretty sure you'll recognize a few of his songs when you hear them.” Mack 10’s chart-topping West Coast rap songs include “Backyard Boogie,” “Foe Life” and Westside Connection’s “Bow Down.” Mack 10 joins The Player’s Ball family of legendary guest performers that include Snoop Dogg, Cypress Hill, Xzibit, Ice Cube, Too Short, Flava Flav and Ice-T. The star-studded 2010 XBIZ Awards will be hosted by top adult stars Teagan Presley and Sunny Leone and will be attended by the movers and shakers of the industry. The event is held in conjunction with XBIZ LA conference being held at the Sofitel Hotel. Sponsored by SugarCash and CECash, D-Money said there are a few sponsorships available. For information, email theplayersball@gmail.com. … [Read more...]

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