May 18, 2013

Chile counts cost of earthquake as tsunami fears ease

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Chile has begun to count the cost of its deadly 8.8 magnitude earthquake as nations around the Pacific eased their fears of a devastating tsunami.

The quake, on Saturday morning, killed at least 300 people – 90% of them in their homes. It is feared the damage may cost tens of billions of dollars.

One major rescue effort is in the city of Concepcion, where dozens are feared trapped in a collapsed apartment block.

The Pacific-wide alert for a tsunami in the wake of the quake has been lifted.

Chilean President Michelle Bachelet said that two million people had been affected by the earthquake.

The 8.8 quake is one of the biggest ever recorded and the largest to hit Chile in 50 years.

‘Catastrophe’

Many Chileans in affected areas have spent the first night since the earthquake outdoors, afraid to stay inside.

AT THE SCENE
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Gideon Long, BBC News, Santiago

The streets of the capital, usually buzzing with activity on a summer weekend like this, are eerily quiet and dark. Nearly 24 hours after the quake struck, whole swathes of the city have no electricity and no running water.

Many people have packed up and left to stay with friends and relatives who are better off than they are.

The city’s new buildings seemed to have survived more or less intact. But it’s the old buildings that suffered. I drove past my local church – still intact but missing its dome, which crashed to the ground when the earth began to shake.

Around the city of Concepcion, whole villages have been flattened. Highways have been sliced in two and bridges have collapsed.

But help is arriving. Chile has a long history of earthquakes and the authorities here know how to deal with them.
Santiago shaken but spared

In Concepcion, close to the epicentre, mayor Jacqueline van Rysselberghe said dozens of people were trapped in the collapsed apartment block.

“Time is of the essence to save the people inside this building,” she said.

Rescue coordinator Commander Marcelo Plaza said: “We spent the whole night working, smashing through walls to find survivors. The biggest problem is fuel, we need fuel for our machinery and water for our people.”

National showed pictures of people removing goods from supermarkets in Concepcion, Chile’s second city, before police arrived to clear the crowd with tear gas and water cannon.

The situation there has been described as critical.

Ms van Rysselberghe said Concepcion had as yet received no food or other aid from Santiago and that it was urgently needed.

Strong aftershocks have continued to rock Santiago and other areas.

The epicentre of the quake was 115km (70 miles) north-east of Concepcion and 325km south-west of Santiago.

Chilean officials and ministers are still trying to come to terms with the scale of the disaster.

Interior Minister Edmundo Perez Yoma said it was difficult to give precise figures of a “catastrophe of immense proportions”.

One risk assessor, Eqecat, put the value of the damage at between $15bn and $30bn (£9.8bn-£19.6bn) or 10-15% of gross domestic product.

About 1.5 million homes have been damaged and police patrols have been stepped up to deter looters.

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Detailed map of quake
Tsunami spreads through Pacific
Eyewitness: ‘Nature’s fury’

Most of the collapsed buildings were of older design – including many historic structures. About 90% of the historic centre of the town of Curico was destroyed. Many roads and bridges across the affected area were damaged or destroyed.

Santiago airport was damaged and remains closed.

Jose Abumohor, of Chile’s national emergency centre, said efforts were already under way to restore public services.

“The aim is as soon as possible that we manage to reach a state of normality,” he said.

Mr Abumohor said the metro system would soon be working in Santiago and other transport services were slowly returning to normal. Roads were passable, although with diversions.

Efforts were under way to get aid to those who needed it, with relief supplies essential for the Juan Fernandez islands, where at least five people were killed as tsunamis hit.

The coastal town of Talcahuano, badly damaged by tsunami waves, is said to be the worst affected.

Organisation of the reconstruction effort will soon pass to Chile’s new president, Sebastian Pinera, who takes office in two weeks.

POWERFUL EARTHQUAKES
Haiti, 12 Jan 2010: About 230,000 people die after shallow 7.0 magnitude quake
Sumatra, Indonesia, 26 Dec 2004: 9.2 magnitude. Triggers Asian tsunami that kills nearly 250,000 people
Alaska, US, 28 March 1964: 9.2 magnitude; 128 people killed. Anchorage badly damaged
Chile, south of Concepcion, 22 May 1960: 9.5 magnitude. About 1,655 deaths. Tsunami hits Hawaii and Japan
Kamchatka, NE , 4 Nov 1952: 9.0 magnitude

In pictures: Chile quake
Chileans tell of quake terror
Chile well prepared

“It’s going to be a very big task and we’re going to need resources,” he said.

Chile has so far not requested aid despite offers of assistance from the US, China, the EU, the UN and others.

Foreign Minister Mariano Fernandez said Chile did not want aid offers to be “a distraction”, adding: “Any aid that arrives without having been determined to be needed really helps very little.”

Economic analysts say the quake will have a deep impact on Chile’s economy, with the peso weakening in the short term and a large cost for rebuilding.

However, Chile could benefit in the long term from an economic boost in the reconstruction effort.

Alberto Ramos of Goldman Sachs told Reuters: “The Chileans fortunately have the best managed economy in the hemisphere and will be able to deal with this terrible adversity.”

Evacuation orders

Meanwhile fears of a devastating tsunami across the Pacific receded on Sunday.

Japan has maintained an alert, issuing evacuation orders for 320,000 people around the coast.

However, it downgraded its alert from major to normal – meaning waves of two metres were expected rather than three.

About 50 Pacific countries and territories had issued tsunami alerts.

French Polynesia and Tahiti were among those hit by high waves, but no casualties have been reported.

The Pacific Tsunami Warning Center on Sunday lifted its Pacific-wide alert.

Warning systems across the Pacific have improved since the 2004 Indonesia quake sparked a tsunami that killed nearly 250,000 people.

Top 10: Ways To Keep Her Attention

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For thousands of years, men have had to go out and find their lovers — actually, way back before we became evolved men, we just went out, bopped them on the head and took them . We have recently received a lot of from men who proclaim: “Why should we go after them?” Fair enough. So you want her to come to you? Ask and you shall receive. Here are the top 10 ways to make her approach you.

No.10 – Do not be too friendly

So many men ask why their female friends choose to remain only friends. Well, if you discuss topics that friends discuss, then she will classify you as a friend. Yes, should blossom into full-fledged partnerships, but this is not so at the beginning. And if this isn’t enough, she will tell you sordid stories about all of the other men she likes and is pursuing. Act chummy and that is what you become — a chum.

No.9 – Keep her guessing

like mystery. Now, I’m not implying that you should lie to them, nor am I saying that you should play games, but you should leave something hidden. Put your life story in a press release and send it to her, and we guarantee that you will be flying solo for a while.

Feed her a bit, but keep her curiosity growing and her interest in you will do the same. If a thinks she has you figured out, she will get bored; however, if she wishes to determine what else lies between your two extremes (this last word of wisdom comes from a special young , so take her word for it), she will look forward to seeing you again and again.

No.8 – Do not make the first move

We usually think that in some situations, being straightforward is the only way to go, but you know what? Relationships are, for the most part, about games. And whether you wish to admit or deny it, you must agree that the second you find out someone is interested, your level of interest craters. It’s almost like having already added another notch to your belt. Except, of course, if this involves the one person that you feel you were destined to meet, in which case you just keep on smiling.

So, show some interest — this is the bait after all — but keep your cards to your chest instead of slamming your two-of-a-kind on the table. Who knows? You may end up with a full house if you’re patient.

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No.7 – Play hard to get

This one is an extension of the “do not make the first move” . The difference is simple: Even if she knows you are interested, do not throw yourself at her disposal. If she knows that you would walk over water and swallow to be with her, then she will rain on your parade and pitch a lit match on your dreams, so let her know that you have places to go and people to see. Play hard to get.

No.6 – Be the best you can be

No, do not join the army, even though women like men in uniform. Rather, make sure you smell good, have fresh breath, are well-groomed, and look your best. Yes, some women do not care about looks, especially when your bank account swells to the seven-digits. However, the same way that men demand their women be good-looking, women demand and deserve the same. You have been warned.

No.5 – Smile

It’s very important to smile and present yourself in a positive manner. More importantly, make her laugh, make her friends crack up and, if you can, make her parents smile. That way, you’ll be laughing to the altar (well, more like crying). Ask 9 out of 10 women, and they will tell you the importance of a sense of humor, so leave the tortured look at home and crack a smile.

No.4 – Make her the center of your universe

OK, before the Men’s Liberation movement gets upset, allow to simply add this: Make your woman think that all you like her for is the BLT (no, we do not mean bacon, lettuce and tomatoes), and she will not care to keep you around for long. But please her mind by showing an interest (a genuine one) in her family, friends, work, interests, hobbies, and dreams, and she will fall for you. Make sure you let her answer you instead of shooting off a session of 20 questions.

No.3 – Give her space

You may like her and want her to like you, but unless you give her space and do not crowd her, she will never be interested. You know the expression about absence making the heart grow fonder? Well, it’s true. So let her wonder where you are, whom you’re with and where you’re going, and she will hope to cross paths with you more often than you think.

No.2 – Do not prejudge her

This is key, even before you get to the stage. Men (and women) are bad in one way: We meet a young woman we like and we attribute her with the qualities and traits of our dream woman. Then we wonder why we cannot do squat at work as we daydream of her.

Then when push comes to shove, we realize that she is a fraction of our image of her and that she is, in fact, nothing like what we believed her to be. This said, you should have absolutely no expectations of her character and she will not disappoint; she may even want you to get to know her better, at which point you can send us a thank-you note.

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No.1 – Manage her expectations

Making her come to you is the easy part; keeping her is the real challenge. When you meet your dream woman, be honest with yourself and her: Do not portray yourself in a different light. Call it like it is and you will avoid and misery down the road. Most importantly, she will see that you are being genuine, sincere and honest, and she will, therefore, want you by her side forever.

Black History Month – Conclusion – Thurgood Marshall

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For the final day of Black History Month, we reviewed some newspaper articles in NY State and found this one -

Black History Month is an important part of every year. It may only be one month, but it should be recognized as an important symbol to everyone that proves how far our country has come. Our nation has changed so much for the better throughout the years, and we should celebrate every day that we are all created equal and are treated that way.

Even though we believe that our country does not stereotype or is not racist in any way, there are still people who judge others every day by their appearance. I was not brought up in a household that judged or stereotyped people, but I do come face to face with these issues daily.

When I walk into my white suburban high school, I don’t expect to hear rude comments about African-Americans. However, I still do hear jokes constantly made about others. My school is trying to promote diversity, and I believe that is a wonderful thing. We have a diversity club and different shirts that we all try and wear one day a month. Even though my school is not very diverse, it still is important to get the message across to children and teens that we should accept people who are different from .

Some people believe that our nation has changed so much that we do not need to even celebrate February as Black History Month. However, this month not only allows us to remember our past, but it also confirms that we are changing constantly for a better future. My school is taking steps into helping students recognize their backgrounds and showing others how they are unique.

We are not only showing others that we accept different backgrounds, but that we also embrace different ideas from them. We may have come a long way, but we still need to go further. People across the world are different and unique, but we need to remember that everyone is equal and should be treated with the highest respect. In order for our world to keep changing for the better, we need this month to celebrate the role African-American’s have had in shaping this beautiful country.

Thurgood Marshall Biography
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Attorney Thurgood Marshall led the civil rights case of Brown v. Board of of Topeka to a successful hearing at the in 1954. He became the court’s first African-American justice 13 years later. The descendant of slaves, Marshall graduated from all-black Lincoln University in Pennsylvania in 1930, then received a degree from Howard University in 1933. He opened his own practice in Baltimore and became known as a lawyer who would speak up for the rights of African-Americans; this led him to a job with the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) in 1936. He spent more than two decades with the NAACP, gaining his greatest fame for the case of Brown v. Board of from 1952-54. When the Supreme Court ruled in 1954 that “Separate educational facilities are inherently unequal,” Marshall and the NAACP won a great victory for civil rights. Marshall was nominated to the U.S. Court of Appeals (Second Circuit) in 1961, then appointed to the post of solicitor general in 1965 by President Lyndon Johnson. Marshall was appointed to the Supreme Court itself in 1967, where he served for 24 years before he retired in 1991. Marshall, known as a liberal throughout his tenure, was replaced on the court by conservative African-American Clarence Thomas (appointed by President George H. W. Bush). Marshall died of heart failure two years later.

Extra credit: Southern University School of Law was renamed the Thurgood Marshall School of Law in his honor in 1976… Marshall replaced Tom C. Clark on the Supreme Court… Marshall was married twice: to the former Vivian Burey (from 1929 until her death in 1955) and to Cecilia Suyat (from 1955 until his death)… Marshall is buried in National Cemetery.

Video Secrets Offers Performer Bonus

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CALABASAS, Calif. — Video Secrets has announced its latest webcam model bonus, offering more than $25,000 in monthly cash prizes for its top performers.

According to the company, the new bonus system is based on performance statistics tracked every two weeks, beginning on Monday, March 1. The new performer interface includes a Bonus Page that allows performers to see which position they are in as they compete for the top 20 spots. Every performer who makes it into the Top 20 will earn as much as $1,500 on top of all other earnings.

“We couldn’t be more excited about offering our performers more ways to make than ever before,” Video Secrets Manager of Operations, Brad Estes, said. “We have done a lot of testing and statistical sampling to come up with a bonus system that is fair for all of our models.”

“These new bonuses will enhance model payouts, improve model performances and generate significantly higher payouts for our affiliates,” he added.

In addition to the performance bonuses which are based on credits earned by models, Video Secrets is also launching a new Consistency Bonus that allows every model to earn an extra $100 during any two week period just by meeting two criteria.

Any model that logs at least 3,600 minutes online (60 hours over two weeks) and earns at least 30,000 credits in a two week pay period gets an additional $100 payout on top of all other earnings,” Estes said. “This gives every model 100 extra reasons to get excited about this new bonus system.”

On top of these new performer bonuses, Video Secrets will maintain its ongoing special promo days and Model of the Week contests that add up to even more opportunities for models to earn some extra cash.

“Sending your traffic to Video Secrets sites means that your surfers are always being greeted by the best paid, most skilled and fully motivated cast of webcam models available anywhere in the world,” Estes concluded.

New performers can sign up at broadcasting.vs.com.

Pacific under tsunami threat after massive 8.8 quake strikes Chile

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STORY HIGHLIGHTS

* NEW: Hawaii plans evacuations; West Coast, Alaska under tsunami watch
* NEW: Quake is 1,000 times stronger than the one in Haiti
* NEW: Dozens of aftershocks, one of magnitude 6.9, shake Chile
* 78 believed killed; death toll expected to rise

(CNN) — A massive magnitude 8.8 earthquake rocked Chile early Saturday, killing at least 78 people and triggering tsunami warnings for the entire Pacific basin.

Chilean President Michelle Bachelet said she expected the death toll to rise.

Numerous aftershocks — including one of magnitude 6.9 — were felt within hours of the initial quake, the U.S. Geological Survey said.

The quake’s epicenter was located off the coast in Maule, about 200 miles southwest of the capital of Santiago. It struck at 3:34 a.m. (1:34 a.m. ET), when most people were sleeping.

Jolted out of bed

“This is a major event. This happened near some very populated areas,” said Randy Baldwin, a geophysicist with USGS. “With an 8.8 you expect damage to the population in the area.”

The earth’s rumbling was felt by millions in Chile and in parts of as well. Some buildings in the Argentine capital, Buenos Aires, were evacuated.

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Bachelet declared areas of catastrophe, similar to a state of emergency that will allow her to rush in aid. She said the town of Chillan — which was destroyed by a killer quake in 1939 — was one of the worst affected.
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The Pacific Tsunami Warning Center issued a tsunami warning, the highest level of a tsunami alert, for the entire Pacific region, including Hawaii and places as far away as and Japan.

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California and Alaska are under a tsunami advisory.

“An earthquake of this size has the potential to generate a destructive tsunami that can strike coastlines near the epicenter within minutes and more distant coastlines within hours,” the National Service said in a statement.

USGS geophysicist Victor Sardina said several tsunami waves had come ashore along the Chilean coast; the largest was recorded at 9 feet near the quake’s epicenter.

“I urge people in coastal zones to move to higher ground,” Bachelet said at a morning news conference.

The earliest estimated arrival for a wave that could affect Hawaii was 12:46 a.m. local time (6:46 p.m. ET). But evacuations of coastal areas were to begin at 6 a.m. (12 p.m. ET).

Saturday’s quake comes just a few weeks after an earthquake devastated parts of Haiti. That quake was magnitude 7.0. The Chilean quake, at magnitude 8.8, was a thousand times stronger — an earthquake displaces 64 times more energy for each additional point on the magnitude scale.

Check out the world’s biggest earthquakes since 1900

The full extent of the damage was not yet known, although there were reports of collapsed buildings and hundreds of people in the streets. The ceiling of a parking lot in the fashionable Las Condes neighborhood of Santiago came crashing down, crushing at least 50 cars.

The capital lost electricity and basic services including water and telephones. Bachelet said regional hospitals had suffered damage; some were evacuated. The Santiago airport was shut down and a major bridge connecting northern and southern Chile was rendered inoperable.

Santiago resident Leo Perioto jumped out of bed in his apartment at the top of a six-story building.

“The whole building was shaking,” he said. “The windows were wobbling a lot. We could feel the walls moving from side to side.”

Glass shattered at the Santiago Marriott Hotel, but there appeared to be no structural damage, said Alessandro Perez.

Anita Herrera at the Hotel Kennedy in Santiago said electricity was out and guests were nervous.

“Our hotel is built for this,” she said. “In Chile this happens many times.”

Coastal Chile has a history of deadly earthquakes, according to the USGS. Since 1973, there have been 13 quakes of magnitude 7.0 or higher.

Saturday’s epicenter was just a few miles north of the largest earthquake recorded in the world: a magnitude 9.5 quake in May 1960 that killed 1,655 and unleashed a tsunami that crossed the Pacific.

The earthquake destroyed many roads

A massive earthquake has hit central Chile and killed at least 214 people, the interior minister says.

The 8.8 quake caused widespread damage, destroying buildings, bridges and roads in many areas, including the capital where a chemical plant caught .

Electricity, water and phone lines have been cut. Hundreds of thousands of people are believed to be affected.

Several Pacific countries were hit by waves higher than usual after a tsunami was set off by the quake.

In French Polynesia waves 6ft (1.8m) high swept ashore, but there were no immediate reports of damage.

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Detailed map of quake
Tsunami spreads through Pacific

In Hawaii, Tahiti and New Zealand, residents in coastal areas have been warned to move to higher ground.

The earthquake struck at 0634 GMT, 115km (70 miles) north-east of the city of Concepcion and 325km south-west of the capital Santiago. It is the biggest to hit Chile in 50 years.

At least 85 people died in the region of Maule alone, local journalists there said.

Many deaths were also in reported in the regions of Santiago, O’Higgins, Biobio, Araucania and Valparaiso.

pictures showed a major bridge at Concepcion had collapsed into the Biobio river.

Rescue teams are finding it difficult to reach Concepcion because of damage to infrastructure, national television reported.

Aftershocks

In Santiago, where at least 13 people were killed, several buildings collapsed – including a car park where dozens of cars were smashed.

A fire at a chemical plant in the outskirts of the capital forced the evacuation of the neighbourhood.

POWERFUL EARTHQUAKES
Haiti, 12 Jan 2010: About 230,000 people die after shallow 7.0 magnitude quake
Sumatra, Indonesia, 26 Dec 2004: 9.2 magnitude. Triggers Asian tsunami that kills nearly 250,000 people
Alaska, , 28 March 1964: 9.2 magnitude; 128 people killed. Anchorage badly damaged
Chile, south of Concepcion, 22 May 1960: 9.5 magnitude. About 1,655 deaths. Tsunami hits Hawaii and Japan
Kamchatka, NE Russia, 4 Nov 1952: 9.0 magnitude

‘Everyone fears aftershocks’
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Chileans tell of quake terror
Chile well prepared

Damage to Santiago international airport’s terminal will keep it closed for at least 72 hours, officials said. Flights are being diverted to Mendoza in Argentina.

President Michelle Bachelet declared a “state of catastrophe” in affected areas and appealed for calm.

She said: “We’re doing everything we can with all the forces we have.”

Ms Bachelet said a “wave of large proportion” had affected the Juan Fernandez island group, reaching halfway into one inhabited area. Local media say that five people died there and several others are missing.

Two aid ships are reported to be on their way.

One resident of Chillan, 100km from the epicentre, told Chilean television the shaking there lasted about two minutes.

Other residents of Chillan and Curico said communications were down but running water was still available.

Many of Chile’s news websites and radio stations are still not accessible.

In Washington, said the US had aid resources in position to deploy should the Chilean government ask for help.

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The US Geological Survey (USGS) said the earthquake struck at a depth of about 35km.

It also recorded at least eight aftershocks, the largest of 6.9 magnitude at 0801 GMT.

The USGS said tsunami effects had been observed at Valparaiso, west of Santiago, with a wave height of 1.69m above normal sea level.

One journalist speaking to Chilean national television from the city of Temuco, 600km south of Santiago, said many people there had left their homes, determined to spend the rest of the night outside. Some people on the streets were in tears.

Chile is highly vulnerable to earthquakes as it is situated on the Pacific “Rim of Fire”, on the edge of the Pacific and South American plates.

Chile suffered the biggest earthquake of the 20th century when a 9.5 magnitude quake struck the city of Valdivia in 1960, killing 1,655 people.

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When Your Woman Is A Mistress

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This week’s question comes from a guy whose is a mistress. Can the good doctor get it through this guy’s head that she’s no good.
reader’s question
Hey Doc,

I’ll cut straight to the chase here. Can a woman be in with two men?

I am a dedicated student of your course, and I understand that love is to be measured in terms of Interest Level, 0% to 100%. Your teachings have landed me, and are allowing me to keep, a woman with an Interest Level above 80%. Jessica gets an A in Flexibility and an A in Giving, but in the area of Integrity she’s not so stellar.
he offered to live a double life
The situation involves her ex. Brent was married and cheating on his , Mary, when Jessica saw him regularly for two years before we met. Brent told Jessica that he would never leave his , but he offered to be the father of Jessica’s children and live a double life with her. Jessica declined. She says she stopped seeing him after only our third date because she felt I could be the one for her to marry. She says she has not seen Brent at all since she broke up with him two and a half years ago.
she still talks to her married ex
Anyway, Jessica and I married six months ago. Here’s the issue: She talks to Brent on the phone every month now. I found this out by accident. When I brought it up to her, she denied talking to Brent until I told her I knew with 100% certainty that she was regularly talking to him. She claims that she loves me much more than Brent, and that I’m the only one she would ever marry. She promised that she would no longer talk to him because it will hurt our marriage.

So, Doc, here’s my question: Can a woman have high Interest Level in both her and another man? Is this maybe the answer to the whole ex dilemma?

Dexter – who’s looking forward to hearing the truth about his woman, the mistress.
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Hi Dexter,

Sure, a woman can be in love with two men. That is, if her Interest Level is only 55% in both of them. But it is impossible to have 95% Interest Level in two guys at the same time. That’s simple arithmetic, my friend.
integrity above all else
In “The System” I tell you guys that any babe you’re with has to score a solid A in Integrity. She can get Bs and Cs in Flexibility and Giving, but there’s no wiggle room when it comes to Integrity. Without Integrity, you are looking at a life of torture if you marry the girl. So you might think you’re a dedicated student, Dexter, but you missed a massive, major point in your studies.

Now let me get this straight. What you’re telling me here is that your wife dated a married man. If your wife dated a married man, she has no Integrity. That’s all there is to it. Why would you go and marry a woman who dates married men? This is your problem right here, Dexter, not that a woman might be in love with two different men. Your problem is simply that you overlooked all-important Integrity when it came to your wife. To you Psych majors: You don’t want to get involved with a woman who dates married men, because that very fact tells you something about her character. And like my Uncle Jethro Love says: “And what it tells you ain’t good!”

When your woman is a mistress, Doc Love has some hard words to for you…

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But let’s be fair. To Brent’s credit, he did offer to father her children and live a double life with her. Like my cousin Fast says: “Now that’s what I call a real nice guy.”

It’s great that Jessica thought you were the one she should marry — if she had stuck with what she said. But she didn’t, did she? When you caught Jessica red-handed talking to her ex, she lied right to your face. Like my cousin Brother Love down in says: “Looks like you got yourself a good woman there, dawg!” And the saddest thing of all is that you had two and a half years to evaluate her and you still went ahead and married her anyway. In the end, everything goes back to one unavoidable fact: she dated a married man.
she’ll have the hubby with a side of philanderer
Jessica claims that she loves you much more than Brent? What’s the matter with you, Dexter? She shouldn’t love him at all. Why would you marry a woman who loves another guy even a little bit? Sure, you’re the only guy she would have married — as long as she could keep another guy on the side. She married you because you were dumb enough to do it. The other guy wasn’t so dumb, have you noticed?

I want Jessica to not want to talk to her ex because it will hurt your marriage, not because you’re giving her an ultimatum or you have to tell her not to talk to him. Like my cousin Sal “The Fish” Love says: “If she had any class, she’d want to do it on her own.”

To answer your question: No, a woman can’t have high Interest Level in two men. Like I said at the beginning, she can only have low Interest Level in both of them. And the ex situation has nothing to do with any of this. Your wife dated a married man. When you found this out, right then and there you should have passed on her. And that’s your big error.
dude, she’s lied to you since the beginning
Dexter, you’re trying to rationalize Jessica’s behavior by bringing up the question of whether a woman can love two men at the same time. It’s a not an issue in this case. You went out with your wife for two and a half years, the other guy was allegedly out of the picture for all that time and now she’s suddenly making phone calls to him? Why is she talking to an ex at all? I’ll tell you why: because she has no Integrity. I can’t say it enough times. This is another great example of how men will rationalize anything and everything when they want to keep a woman who is no good.

Remember, guys: When a woman dates a married man, you should never have anything to do with her — ever.

To hear my LOVE RADIO SHOW, send me your love questions or to find out more about “The System,” visit me at www.doclove.com or call (800) 404-2644. For the past 30 years Doc Love has asked thousands of , “Why do you stay with one man versus another?”

How To: Get That One Special Girl

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Yes, it’s that time once again: The day we feature your and relationship questions. Although we would like to answer each one personally and with as much detail as possible, the overwhelming amount of inquiries forces to highlight those that are most interesting to readers.

This week’s Q&A focuses on a guy who thinks and talks like a Wuss and won’t admit it. He’s also obsessed with a girl who’s not into him. Before he’s told how to get that one special girl, he’s told what he should really do. David DeAngelo, author of Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With , has your answers.
reader’s comment
Hi David,

Dave, I can safely say you’ve changed my life. I was once a 27-year-old virgin, (I know, extreme), I had never been on a date and I had had one when I was 17. And get this; I’ve been told by loads of women that I’m hot. The reason for this was my complete lack of confidence; I just had none. I would get eyed up in a bar, and want to go over, but I just didn’t know what to say. If I was approached by a lady, I either froze up or shook so much that everyone in the room thought their cell phone was vibrating.

I just got up one day, decided to go on the and learn.

Well, as you’ve probably guessed, your tips were the ticket.

I’m now 28 and have been using your techniques for about a year. I am so happy! I have girls coming out of my ears. I am now dating three women (very hot women) and I have four that won’t leave me alone.

OK, here’s the question:

The one girl that I want is the one playing hard to get. I’ve played it cool so far. I knew her from work, but I didn’t know her very well. She doesn’t work with me anymore, and I saw her in a club and “told” her to give me her number. When I ring her up, her phone is always off. So then I’ll send her a text message asking if she fancies going for a coffee during the week. She replies that she’s busy all week and she said that she has just gotten back with her ex and if I wanted to get to know her as a friend, it’s my decision.

I really like her, and she does not know this (because she doesn’t need to know). I am still a novice at the game so could you tell me exactly what you would do and exactly what you would say to get that one special girl?

Thanks
david d. responds

Welcome to the world of being an adult man! Exciting.

And I’m glad to hear that you’re finally doing well with the ladies.

Now, you want me to give you a “special” answer to your “special situation.”

Let’s see: You are surrounded by gorgeous women and they’re chasing you around like you’re some kind of rock star, but you don’t want those women of course. No, you want the one who isn’t interested in you; you want the one who just got back with her boyfriend.

David D. tells our reader just how to get that one special girl…

Before I give you a “special” answer, I’d like you to consider your own situation.

Let’s be honest, shall we? Right now you are out of control. You are not into this girl because she’s actually that “special.” You’re into her because she’s not into you. If you’ll admit this to yourself, and admit that you’re basically out of control in this situation, then we can make some progress.

So admit it. Say it out loud: “I’m out of control. I want this girl mostly because she doesn’t want me and it really fascinates the hell out of me. I can’t stop thinking about it.”

Just read that out loud. Read it again, just so you hear the words this time.

Think about it for a minute.

You understand this stuff — and it still works on you. That’s profound.

And by the way, the more you try to “resist” the idea and tell yourself that she’s just a challenge and you only want her because she’s “special,” the worse it will get.

So, what should you do?

Hit the road. Say “next.” Move on. Walk.

One of the best things you can do for yourself is to get the number of an unusually attractive , then throw it away.

Why? Because it’s a symbol. It’s you saying to yourself: “I don’t need any woman. I can go out and meet women anytime. I’m happy as I am.”

That kind of thing will help you — big time.

Now, if you really don’t want to take my and you want to make yourself crazy some more, here’s what to do:

1. Stop calling this girl for a couple of weeks.
2. Call her in two weeks and say: “Hey, I have a question that I really need to ask you. Call me.”
3. When she calls, say: “Yeah, I wanted to ask you why it’s taking you so long to call and ask me out.” Tell her about some beautiful and intelligent woman you’ve been dating, and then tell her that you’d like to get together with her and hang out as friends.
4. When you do see her, just be friends. Chill out, and give her space.
5. Take the time and energy to actually get to know her as a person. Find out if she is really the kind of girl that you’d like to be with. Make a list of all the things that would make a perfect woman. Then make a list of all the things that would be deal-breakers. Ask her all the questions when you meet her, and do it in a friendly kind of way.

I’d be willing to bet you a dollar that she is not at all the kind of girl you really want to be with. On the other hand, if she is your dream girl, lean back and take your time. Bust on her. Tease her. Make fun of her. Tell her that you can’t possibly understand how her boyfriend could stand her.

Chances are that she won’t be with this guy for long, and you will have now established that she’s your dream girl, and you’ll be ready to pounce.

Moral?

Just get on with your life, man.

You’re talking like a Wuss who’s trying to pretend that he’s not.

My Wuss-dar is going off like Fourth of July fireworks.

David DeAngelo

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David DeAngelo is the author of the book Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women, and several other products that can help men become more successful with women and dating. He also publishes a free online Dating Tips newsletter, available at www.DoubleYourDating.com.

'Manhattan Madam' to Run for N.Y. Governor

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— The “Manhattan Madam” who supplied call girls for Eliot Spitzer when he was Attorney General and Governor, will announce her candidacy for Governor of State as an Independent Candidate at 11 a.m. on March 1.

Kristin Davis will announce her intention to petition her way onto the ballot and will outline her platform, which includes legalization, regulation and taxation of and marijuana to generate urgently needed new revenues for New York State and her support for gay marriage.

Davis told XBIZ, “In terms of the adult , I’d obviously like to see prostitution legalized. It has both a social and economic value to society and we need to legalize, tax and regulate it. As former owner of the world’s largest escort agency – and also someone who spent time in jail for running this - I know first hand that you cannot both criminalize prostitution and claim equality for . who are convicted with these crimes become unemployable yet the men are never prosecuted. I’m a Libertarian and I believe that the government needs to stay out of the personal lives of citizens (and out of their lives).”

In attendance at her announcement will be Penthouse Pet Ryan Keely and Penthouse Columnist Dr. Victoria Zdrok. Also in attendance will be supporters from ThisIs50.com and Susan Austin, Madam of The Mustang Ranch.

Wobble iBoob App Bounces Back to App Store

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CUPERTINO, Calif. — After pulling it from its last week, has made Wobble iBoob available on the once again.

But this time, according to BusinessInsider.com, there’s no suggestive images or language in the app’s materials.

The app allows users to jiggle ’s breasts, among other body parts, and users can still do that as long as they provide their own artwork.

Wobble iBoob developers had to remove illustrations featuring a naked women silhouette from the app.

Apple caused an uproar among independent app developers last week by removing thousands of sexy apps, citing its new policy blocking sexual content.

At the same time, Apple allowed racey app’s from big media companies like to remain on its App store, causing many independent app developers to claim a double standard.

RedTube Makes Subpoena Request; Lawyer Calls It a 'Fishing Expedition'

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SAN JOSE, Calif. — RedTube attorneys said they want to subpoena a man named Chad Taylor over the possible involvement over the redirection of RedTube traffic on July 24.

But the whereabouts of Taylor have become elusive for RedTube attorneys, who believe he or his employees are responsible for sending a threatening to the Menlo Park, Calif., office of Sheppard, Mullin, Richter and Hampton, which represents RedTube on civil litigation matters.

RedTube attorneys, in a motion to a federal judge, said they don’t know where to find him because his or addresses can’t be found.

The only information they have on him is that he uses the email addresses Hidden Email Address and Hidden Email Address and purportedly is a manager at a company called 1120 LLC.

RedTube attorneys have been trying to find a link between the threat and the redirection of traffic in July.

“[T]he threats appear to relate specifically to this litigation and hence there is reason to believe that the person or persons who are responsible for the threats were also involved in that attack,” an earlier motion said.

RedTube attorneys said Taylor made a phone call to the firm claiming “he was apologetic over the situation” and that a threatening email to the firm that included an anti-piracy diatribe was “sent by interns who were being overzealous in the issuance of Digital Millennium Copyright Act takedown notices.”

Taylor was instructed by the attorneys to later provide an email list of the interns, but when he called back he said that it was he, not the interns, who was the original sender of the threat.

Taylor, in another call to RedTube attorneys, said that he contacted industry attorney Michael Fattorosi and that he would decline a face-to-face meeting with RedTube attorneys.

Fattorosi told XBIZ that he indeed represents Taylor and claims that RedTube attorneys are conducting a “fishing expedition” by trying to subpoena him.

“My client is willing to be deposed,” Fattorosi said. “He had no involvement in the redirection of RedTube traffic, so this will be a fruitless deposition.”

RedTube attorneys asked District Judge Richard Seeborg today to grant immediate discovery upon service providers for two IP addresses and Taylor or Fattorosi, if Taylor can’t be found.

RedTube parent company Bright Imperial Ltd. of Hong Kong is seeking $6 million in damages against unknown defendants over the redirection of traffic. The company has named 20 John Does in its complaint filed at U.S. District Court in San Jose.

RedTube said it lost “millions of visits” by its customers by the hackers’ efforts, as well as lost value to rates that are dependent upon its traffic.