February 5, 2012

Lusting for Sexy Sister-in-Law

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I can't stop thinking about my wife's hot sister. What should I do? Posted Thursday, Sept. 10, 2009, at 7:00 AM ET Get "Dear Prudence" delivered to your inbox each week; click here to sign up. Please send your questions for publication to prudence@slate.com. (Questions may be edited.) Click here to read a transcript of Prudie's live weekly chat with readers at Washingtonpost.com. Dear Prudence, I consider myself a moral person. I'm lucky to be married to someone caring and attractive, whom I love and who loves me back. We just had our first child. My wife has a sister who's been married for several years, has kids, and seems happy. She's also extremely sexy. My wife is beautiful to me, but she doesn't have the confidence to pull off "sexy" like her sister. A while back, my sister-in-law came over and we shared a bottle of vodka—my wife was pregnant so couldn't drink. Ever since, I catch glances from my sister-in-law that get my mind racing. She's paraded her body in front of me in bikinis all summer long. I'm not a cheating person, but I've also never been tempted before. I've tried to talk about it with my wife since we share everything. Now she feels I don't want her. She also doesn't think her sister would ever "want" me (not sure how to take that one). Hanging out with my sister-in-law and her husband is one of my favorite aspects of being a part of my wife's family. I don't want to disrupt anything, but I don't know how to carry this around with me. Would it be wrong to confront my sister-in-law about this and try to clear the air? —Conflicted Dear Conflicted, I can just imagine how you'd like this "confrontation" to go: "I think we should clear the air about the sexual attraction between us in Room 426 at the Holiday Inn off Highway Exit 22." You want advice, so here's some: Stop sharing everything if you think sharing includes telling your wife you'd like to bang her sister, declare pool season over—no more swimming with the in-laws—and throw away the vodka bottle. You gloss over the crucial point that your wife just had a baby. That means that, for many months, she has not been as sexually available as usual, and even when she is, her flesh is distributed in strange and not totally alluring ways. Now think of what's going on in your marriage from her perspective. She is wondering whether she will ever get her old body back and whether her husband will still find her attractive. Your confession was not reassuring, and you're lucky it didn't prompt your wife to suggest busting up your new family. You also seem to be insinuating that you're insulted that your wife thinks her sister is not interested in you. Which prompts some more advice: Grow up. You're an adult and a father, so stop acting like a horny teenager. It's time you understood that not every desire is to be acted upon or even spoken of. Use your intellectual powers to appreciate what your wife has gone through to bear your child and to recognize that while you're frustrated … [Read more...]

Eva Angelina Returns Today in ‘Deviance’

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LOS ANGELES — The wait for the much-hyped on-camera return of Eva Angelina is officially over. “Deviance,” a skinworXXX showcase for Angelina, hits retail shelves today.“Fans have been waiting for my return to the dirty biz, and ‘Deviance’ showcases my dirtiest and best scenes to date,” Angelina said. “I am proud of this not just being my comeback vehicle, but one of the best all-sex movies I’ve ever seen.” Angelina is a co-owner, producer and exclusive star for skinworXXX, a studio founded last year by adult star Teagan Presley and director Joshua. “Deviance” is the company’s second release. Presley appears in “Deviance” in an all-girl foursome with Angelina, Alexis Texas and Sunny Leone. “Fans loved the big four-girl orgy in ‘Sun Goddess: Malibu,’ and it was beautiful,” Presley said. “My four-girl scene in ‘Deviance’ is without a doubt my best girl/girl scene ever, and I think fans will agree. I was so excited to work with Sunny, who I love, and Eva and Alexis are my girls.” For “Deviance” Joshua knew he had to up the raunch factor in order to properly showcase Angelina who had been away from the industry on maternity leave after the birth of her daughter. “‘Deviance has pretty much everything in it,” he said. “We have interracial anal, threesomes, foursomes, double penetration — it’s all in there. This movie is really fucking dirty, but we were able to maintain the gloss that ‘Sun Goddess’ showcased. ‘Deviance’ is a raunch-packed three hours.” Also included in the movie’s package is a full-DVD resolution copy compatible with iTunes, iPhones and iPods. Joshua said that the copy is identical to what mainstream uses and is complete with chapter stops, digital sound and full DVD resolution. skinworXXX is distributed by Adam & Eve. To order, call Ryan Thomas at (919) 824-4217, or email rthomas@adameve.com. See all current articles in > adult industry news … [Read more...]

Porn to Meet Pop at ‘Pop Goes the Zipper’

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By G. Zisk Rice 09/14/2009 LOS ANGELES—The annual leather fest known as Folsom Street Fair will start with a “pop” this year, thanks to Chi Chi LaRue and Sister Roma. The divas are slated to host Pop Goes the Zipper, a kickoff party they describe as “an all-night affair offering debauchery like only San Francisco can bring.” The event is scheduled to begin at 9 p.m. Sept. 25 at the infamous Triple Crown Bar. Porn and pop will meet when LaRue takes control of the DJ booth to spin naughty tunes while Sister Roma introduces special-guest porn stars. The lineup includes Channel 1 Releasing exclusive Jeremy Bilding; Mustang Video exclusive Samuel Colt; Hot House exclusives Kyle King, Paul Wagner and Ethan Wolfe; Raging Stallion exclusives Steve Cruz, Bruno Bond and Ryan Raz; and unattached performers Josh Griffin, Scott Tanner, Wolf Hudson, Tony Aziz, Rob Romoni, Nash Lawler, Tristan Jaxx, Spencer Reed, Rocco Giovanni, Tristan Phoenix, Derek da Silva and Alessio Romero. Also expected to make a special appearance as guest of honor is Steven Daigle, the studly International Gay Rodeo Association championship bull rider perhaps better known for his appearance in TV’s Big Brother 10. BeBe Sweetbriar will act as official “door diva” for the night. A $5 cover charge grants access to the event. Proceeds will be donated to the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, an order of queer nuns devoted to community service, ministry and outreach to those on the edges and to promoting human rights, respect for diversity and spiritual enlightenment. For more information, visit C1R.com, TheSisters.org or FolsomStreetFair.org. … [Read more...]

Patrick Swayze dies after cancer battle

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LOS ANGELES, California (CNN) -- Patrick Swayze, whose good looks and sympathetic performances in films such as "Dirty Dancing" and "Ghost" made him a romantic idol to millions, died Monday. He was 57. Patrick Swayze's doctor said in March 2008 that Swayze was suffering from pancreatic cancer. Swayze died of pancreatic cancer, his publicist, Annett Wolf, told CNN. Swayze's doctor, Dr. George Fisher, revealed in early March 2008 that Swayze was suffering from the disease. Most recently, Swayze starred in A&E Network's "The Beast," which debuted in January. He agreed to take the starring role of an undercover FBI agent before his diagnosis. The network agreed to shoot an entire season of the show after Swayze responded well to his cancer treatment. iReport.com: Send us your memories of Swayze In an interview with ABC's Barbara Walters in January, Swayze said his work on that show was exhausting, requiring 12-hour workdays in Chicago, Illinois, doing his own stunts. But he said the show's character "just felt right for my soul." "If I leave this Earth, I want to leave this Earth just knowing I've tried to give something back and tried to do something worthwhile with myself," Swayze told Walters, when asked why he decided to do the show. "And that keeps me going, that gets me up in the morning. My work ... is my legacy." Swayze was mostly known for a handful of supporting roles when he broke through with his performance as dance instructor Johnny Castle in 1987's "Dirty Dancing." Watch a look back on Swayze's career » Three years later, he became an even bigger star with "Ghost," in which he played an investment banker who dies and learns to tap into his unspoken feelings for his partner (Demi Moore). The film won Whoopi Goldberg an Oscar and helped make Swayze People magazine's "Sexiest Man Alive" in 1991. Don't Miss KTLA:  Patrick Swayze dies after battle with cancer ''The movies that have had the most powerful effects on my life have been about romantic characters,'' he told Entertainment Weekly in 1990. He expanded on the effort he put into love scenes for People in 1991. "It's possibly the scariest thing I do," he said, "doing something so personal and giving people out there the opportunity to see if you're a good kisser or not." Patrick Wayne Swayze was born on August 18, 1952, in Houston, Texas. His father was an engineering draftsman; his mother was a ballet dancer and later the director of the Houston Ballet Dance Company. She led her son into the dancing world, which wasn't always easy for a Texas male. Indeed, the young Swayze played football, practiced martial arts and was an accomplished diver and track star while growing up, though he was good enough at dance to earn a college scholarship. After an early professional job playing Prince Charming in an early '70s version of "Disney on Ice," Swayze returned to Houston, where he met Lisa Niemi, a student of his mother's. … [Read more...]

Jazella Moore Returns to the Scene of the 'Crime'

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She'll be feature-dancing in Ft. Myers in early September Noted - This article is from AVN Online - we credit them for this submission By Mark Kernes 09/04/2009 PARTS UNKNOWN—Jazella Moore and husband Scott Janke won't say where they're currently living ... and perhaps with good reason: There are apparently still some folks (though hardly most) who are upset with the fact that Scott, the former city manager of Ft. Myers Beach, Fla., married an adult entertainer, and when that pairing was revealed, was summarily fired from his job. "The people in town were upset that the town council fired me because of that," Janke told AVN. "Their feeling was, what does it matter? Does it affect the town? This guy's a great city manager; who cares? And that's at the end of the day what happened." "My understanding in my gut is, the town council did what they probably thought was best for the town, and it backfired," he continued. "Had they listened to me, had they let me come to a meeting and talk to them about this, number one, I think they would have let me keep my job—they'd probably say, 'We don't really care; she's not actively working at this point in time'—or number two, they would have said, 'Yeah, Scott; you've been in this business a long time; what do you think?' I would have said, 'Well, if I resign, and you compensate me from leaving, it'll be a lot less of a headline than it will be if you say I'm terminated, because the press will say he's terminated because his wife's in the porn industry. You don't want that headline.' In their own desire to minimize disruption, they chose a course of action that actually maximized disruption." But if the city council thinks all of Scott and Jazella's previous publicity was bad, they may have a surprise or two coming. "I'm excited and nervous because I never danced before," Jazella said, "but I'm going to be feature-dancing in Ft. Myers at Escapades the 9th, 10th, 11th and 12th of September, and that's where it all started. They called me and asked if I wanted to do it, and I said, 'Why not?' Because they're already saying that I'm flaunting porn, but that's not the way I am. If I could have kept it a secret, I would have, but now the whole world knows about it. So I'm very excited because since I've been accused, why not go and have fun with it?" With Scott out of a job, Jazella's become the main support of her family, which includes a set of 15-year-old triplets, two girls and a boy. "They're 15 going on 30," she sighed. "They're good kids, very supportive of me, and they tell me, 'Who cares about the family, mom? It's you and us, and you've always struggled to support us and how can we not respect you?'" At this point, beyond her husband and kids, "the family" consists mainly of cousins, since Jazella, who's no spring chicken, was an only child. "They found this out through the media, just like a lot of people did, that I was doing it," she explained. "I heard from my godmother that some of … [Read more...]

AVN Announces New Location for 2010 AVN Awards Show

Pearl Theatre at Palms Hotel named as new home CHATSWORTH, Calif.—AVN Media Network has announced that the 2010 AVN Awards Show, to take place on Saturday, Jan. 9, 2010, will be held at the Pearl Concert Theatre inside the Palms Casino Resort in Las Vegas. “The Pearl Concert Theatre is an intimate, state-of-the-art facility,” said Paul Fishbein, president of AVN. “We were looking for something more conducive to a close-up experience, and watching what was done for both the NHL Awards and the MTV Music Video Awards two years ago convinced us that this theater provided an ideal location for the show. There isn’t a bad seat in the house.” Tickets for the 2010 show go on sale on Oct. 1 and will be available at www.avnawards.com. A dazzling array of parties and special events for that weekend will be announced in the coming weeks. “The Palms Casino Resort has been a wonderful home for our winter Internext conventions, so we’re excited to further our relationship with that venue,” said Darren Roberts, AVN’s CEO. “We now have greater flexibility in producing the television coverage of the awards, while making the live experience that much better for our attendees.” “We are thrilled to be the new home of the AVN Awards,” said George Maloof, owner of the Palms Casino Resort. “Moving this show to the Pearl will give guests a more intimate experience than in years past.” The deadline for products to be included in the 2010 Awards is Sept. 30, 2009. All products must be released into retail locations by that date. “Soon we’ll announce information about how to enter your products for consideration,” said Dan Miller, executive editor of AVN. “Just as we did last year, there will be a website where people can easily enter their submissions for nomination.” Also, for the first time ever, AVN will be announcing six Consumer Choice Awards, which will be voted on strictly by the fans. “Some of these awards are very unique but speak to the heart of what consumers are looking for,” Roberts said. “Having them on the television show will increase consumer interest and awareness for all the titles, products and websites involved.” In addition, AVN will be announcing some unique and exciting sponsorship opportunities. “The Palms allows us to really target our customers’ needs—and the intimacy of the venue makes for perfect targeted marketing,” said Renee Johnson, senior show manager for AVN. “It’s a great venue where the ROI will be tremendous.” For sponsorship information, contact Renee Johnson (renee.johnson@avn.com)  at 818-718-5788, ext. 139. For ticket information, contact Patty Cullison (patty.cullison@avn.com) at 818-718-5788, ext. 146. … [Read more...]

The Economist Addresses ‘Hard Times’ in Porn Industry

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By Steve Javors Thursday, Sep 10, 2009 LONDON — World news and business magazine The Economist addresses the financial state of the adult entertainment industry — and Porn Valley specifically — in an article in its latest issue, which states that the “big industry in northern Los Angeles is among the worst hit by the recession.”Among those quoted in the piece is veteran performer and renowned “sexpert” Nina Hartley who draws from her own decreased workload (from a scene per week to a scene per month) that the business of porn is struggling. For once, the oft-cited estimation of the dollar amount of revenue adult entertainment brings in — $12 billion at its height a couple years ago — has shrunk to $6 billion according to an editor from Adult Video News, a 50 percent decrease in just two years. Free Speech Coalition Executive Director Diane Duke estimates that revenues have dropped 30- to 50-percent in the past year, with one producer telling Duke that his business took an 80 percent hit. The piece even addresses performers scene rates and the drop in production. “For the 1,200 active performers in the Valley this means less action and more hardship,” the article states. “A young woman without Ms. Hartley’s name-recognition might have charged $1,000 for a straight scene before the crisis, but gets $800 or less now.” It isn’t until the last paragraph in the piece that The Economist addresses the industry’s biggest threat: piracy and free porn on the Internet. Porn is “like potato chips, everywhere and cheap, to be consumed and tossed,” Hartley said. “The industry will shrink and stay shrunken.” … [Read more...]

Microsoft Denies Purchase of Keyword ‘Pornography’

REDMOND, Wash. — Microsoft said they did not buy the keyword “pornography” to advertise its search engine Bing. Enterprising web researchers noticed this week that a simple search for “pornography” on Google activates a contextual ad for Microsoft’s competing search engine, Bing. Such ads don’t really appear unless someone buys them specifically, which sparked speculation that Microsoft — which had already established porn-friendly bona-fides with its new search engine — was cashing in on its connection to adult. Nonsense, said Microsoft. “Microsoft has not purchased the keyword ‘pornography,’ and this term has never been in our AdWords account,” a representative said. “It is our policy on the Bing marketing team that we do not have any adult content as part of any of our keyword buys or other marketing campaigns. The keyword that seems to be triggering these results is ‘free videos.’ We are following up with Google to understand why this ad is showing up in these types of queries.” A search for “free videos” on Google returns many adult results, though none of them for Bing. The search term “pornography” no longer returns a result for Bing. Despite Microsoft’s denial, Bing has proven itself to be one of the best adult search engines on the planet. “In private conversations Microsoft employees always said that the porn search feature was an unintended byproduct of good video search,” said leading tech analyst Michael Arrington, later adding, “There’s nothing wrong with being a good porn search engine, in our opinion. And why not go ahead and advertise it to the world.” Bing received a lot of good reviews upon its release, including praise for its video search, which presents results in a convenient grid of thumbnails. Mousing over any of the thumbnails shows users a brief video preview. Microsoft also offers a porn-specific version of Bing at the subdomain Explicit.bing.net. Channeling all adult content through this domain lets system admins filter out adult search results at the server level. … [Read more...]

Fit Over 40

Related: Demi Moore, Halle Berry, Renee Zellweger, Salma Hayek, Sandra Bullock, Marisa Tomei In Hollywood, 40 is the new 30. Heck, it might even be the new 20. Check out this crew of fit and foxy forty-somethings. Sandra Bullock is used to kicking butt at the box office, and she knows what it takes to get into the butt-kicking mode. Sandra stays in shape by doing kick boxing, Pilates or weight training while on the job in Los Angeles. If she's at her home in Austin, Sandra keeps fit by going on long bike rides or runs. The variety in her workouts keeps her interested while toning many parts of her body at different times. … [Read more...]

Nation pauses to remember 9/11 attacks

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NEW YORK (CNN) -- President Obama and first lady Michelle Obama held a moment of silence outside the White House on Friday as New York and the nation paused on the eighth anniversary of the September 11, 2001, terror attacks that killed 2,752 people. The "Tribute in Light" near the World Trade Center site in New York City a day before the memorial services. Al Qaeda terrorists hijacked airplanes and crashed them into the World Trade Center and the Pentagon, twin symbols of America's financial and military might. Another hijacked plane crashed in a field near Shanksville, Pennsylvania; its intended target was the White House or the Capitol. There was a moment of silence at the site of the former World Trade Center at 8:46 a.m. when the first plane struck the North Tower, followed by another at 9:03 a.m. when a jet struck the South Tower. Relatives and friends of the dead read their names in a solemn roll call. At ground zero, a woman whose husband worked on the 94th floor of one of the World Trade Center buildings recalled that day. "The pain can still be so sharp. ... I realize how much my life has changed," she said, mentioning that her children have now grown and she has grandchildren. Her husband left many lessons, she said, including "the courage to be kind." Just before the first moment of silence, New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg praised the newly established September 11 National Day of Service and Remembrance, designated by Obama. Don't Miss Commentary: Acts of kindness are the way to mark 9/11 Ground broken on $3.4 billion Homeland Security complex Senate bill would strengthen security against biological attacks "Appropriately, the city of New York has taken up that call. From this day forward we will guard the memories of those who died by rekindling the spirit of service and help keep us strong," Bloomberg said. People were listing their charitable acts on a Web site set up for the day. One man who spoke to the crowd remembered his brother, a partner at a law firm near the Twin Towers and a longtime volunteer firefighter. He rushed toward the South Tower, "toward the inferno," to do what he could to help, his brother said. "He was there when the tower collapsed." Obama will make remarks and participate in a wreath-laying ceremony for the 184 victims killed when American Airlines Flight 77 struck the Pentagon's west wall. A ceremony will be held in Shanksville just before 10 a.m. to remember the 40 passengers and crew of United Airlines Flight 93 who died when the hijacked plane went down in a field. The passengers and crew, aware of the fate of other hijacked planes, fought the men who had taken control of their aircraft, leading to its crash. Country singer Trace Adkins will sing the national anthem. Colin Powell, former U.S. secretary of state, will give the keynote address. A $58 million memorial is being constructed at the 2,200-acre site and is scheduled to open on the 10th anniversary … [Read more...]